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41 M Mishawaka, IN

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5′ 11″ (1.81m)
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Christianity, and very serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
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Has kids
English, Japanese, Spanish

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My self-summary
I tried this in the past. OBVIOUSLY, it didn’t work… Lol. I didn’t find anyone who truly caused me to ‘stop in my tracks’ (if that makes sense). My friends told me I was crazy to try online dating, they said I wouldn’t be able to properly ‘type’ my personality onto a computer screen. Maybe they were right! (I kept attracting ALL the wrong girls! HAHA!) So, I decided to take a different approach… I asked people close to me (co-workers, friends, acquaintances, etc. to describe me in a “few words”.

J.B.: “Very funny, intelligent, and friendly.” This person went on to say: “To be honest, when you’re not here, and you’re out seeing clients, the office is REALLY quiet. It’s boring. But, as soon as you come in, everything changes. People start talking, having fun, and it just seems to get “happier”. I think it’s safe to say that we miss you when you’re gone. We like it better when you’re around!” (Awwwwww…. That made me feel great!)
My ex Father-in-Law: “You're one of the few REAL men that are left out there. You're a great provider, and you're a lot stronger than you look!” (It's pretty cool that he still has a great deal of respect for me.)

B.H.: “Funny, caring/compassionate, and a BODYGUARD!” (HA! She STRESSED the bodyguard part! [I’m very protective of my friends and family.])
A.C.: “Genuine (that was one of my favorites!!!), and confident.”

R.F.: “Funny, good-looking, good singer, good friend, honest, a lot of integrity.”
M.J.: “Smart-@$$!!!!!” (HAHAHA!!!! She’s an older black lady whom I tortured at work, EVERY chance I could! Lol. When she was on vacation, I changed her PC background to a pic of a giant snake… She cussed at me, and punched me. HA! I love it!)
My Boss (the company president): “He’s great! He’s like a pit-bull. When he gets a hold of something, he doesn’t stop until he wins!” (This was a conversation he had with someone else, regarding me; the other person told me about it...)
A.Y.: “You’re strong in your Faith. You’re a great worker. You’re honest. You have a lot of integrity. You’re “real”; you don’t pretend to be someone/something you’re not. To be honest, you’re the perfect catch… I have no idea why you’re still single.” (THAT was from the owner of the company for whom I work. This was his response to me when I told him I was trying online dating. To be candid, it made me feel pretty good! [I’m just glad I know he’s straight! Lol. Otherwise, I’d have thought he was hitting on me!!!! HAHA!)
R.C: “Friendly, helpful, and giving.” (I noticed he didn’t comment on my sense of humor… I think it’s because he has a “joke of the day” calendar, and he likes to think he’s funnier! Lol)

J.I.: “I wish MY husband was like you...” (How sweet! :-) )

J.N.: “You need to spend some time with ______ (her husband), and teach him to be more like you!” (Those last two comments were nice to hear, but I have to admit, I felt a little uncomfortable! Haha! Although..., it seemed like a trend was starting! Lol.)

S.G.: “You're a great friend! People can really depend on you!”

My kids: “You're the BEST Daddy in the WORLD!” (I'm not so sure about that one, but I do try!!!)

Well... I think that's enough. Hopefully that gives you an idea of what type of man I am.

I'm looking for someone whose life will compliment mine, as I hope to compliment hers. Physical attraction isn't everything, but it IS important. I tend to find interest in women younger than myself. I've got a young, fun personality, and I'm trying to find a woman with the same!

If you have any questions, just ask!

PS. If you're more than 25 miles away, don't bother.
What I’m doing with my life
Strengthening my relationship with The Lord, being a good daddy, and concentrating on my career...
I’m really good at
Music (writing, singing, playing), making people laugh, listening
The first things people usually notice about me
my sense of humor, and my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Bible
TV:The Big Bang Theory (HAHA!), The Office, Impractical Jokers
Movies: The Breakfast Club, Dead Calm (too many to list)
Music: Third Day, old school Metallica, Alice in Chains, Chris Tomlin, Jonny Lange, stuff that I write (lol), Enter the Worship Circle, and MANY MORE...
Food: In the words of Andrew Zimmern: "If it looks good... EAT IT!"
The six things I could never do without
My family
At least ONE of my guitars
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to be the best father, and man, i can be...
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing with my kids, unless I decide to make plans to do something else
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
(I actually enjoyed The Notebook... DON'T JUDGE!!!! haha)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You have a heart for The Lord, you're genuine, and you think we'd be a good match