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33 M San Diego, CA

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Last Online
Today – 7:36pm
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am who I am. There are times when I'm charming, times when I'm amusing, and times when I'm just plain old annoying. I'm a quiet, gentle, yet surprisingly animated sort, who goes from zero to eighty in three point six. Smart, opinionated, not too bad on the eyes, and authentically genuine.
What I’m doing with my life
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graduate school. That being said, I'm doing everything half-ass backwards! After 2 careers, fourteen years exploring the world, I'm back in school preparing for my vocation. I'm an idealist, but also one who believes that the world is only as good as we make it. The State Department is hopefully where I'm headed. And if not, than some NGO, building bridges of common ground and changing lives. Something international involving lots of travel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the good in people. Excelling at anything I attempt. Offering solutions along with my criticism.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not much at first. I dress plainly, don't have any particularly features that stand out...and yet, there's just something that screams different that you won't be able to put your finger on. Maybe you can let me in on the secret :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a voracious reader. My tastes are eclectic, from Hugo to Cornwall, "Assertio Septum Sacramentorium" to "Jonathan Livingston Seagull." Mainly historical/scientific adventure types, biographies, and the occasional graphic novel (it's a weakness!). When I'm not reading, you'll find me either relaxing with a movie at home, or out enjoying a museum, theatrical performance, or a lecture. Not a club or bar person. I prefer one on one atmospheres. My idea of a party is a glass of wine and Tolstoy. Or maybe a home cooked meal, discussing the latest political developments. Or traveling to a new place. I hike, I camp, I enjoy the outdoors, hunting, etcetera. Not a fan of sports, but hey, don't mind me, I'll sit right next to you watching the game, while I do something else. Like making snarky comments!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Theatre
- Books
- good food
- A passport
- Irish Whiskey
- Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
World peace. Seriously. I'm a quaker!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's such a thing as a typical Friday night?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Your idea of a fantastic evening is a home cooked meal, maybe a movie, then talking the night away debating why the Roman Empire Fell. Or maybe the caliber of modern hollywood acting. Or perhaps the best way to skin a deer. Maybe your cup of tea is which city is better, Seattle vs. Portland? I'd even probably settle for a discussion about the weather (Lighting, hurricanes, global warming; come on, there LOTS of wicked awesome fodder!). But we aren't EVER going to ever talk about the NY Yankees. Because this Boston bred guy, while he doesn't give a lick about sports, is still true to his town ;)