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33 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:38pm
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hey there, I'm Joshua, a recent transplant to SD for school. Nice guy here, I'm passionate about the world around me and acutely aware of my role in it. So many interests, so much to see and do, so little time. Looking forward to getting to know my new home city better, and meeting some great guys along the way.
What I’m doing with my life
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graduate school and being the change I want to see in the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the good in people. Excelling at anything I attempt. Offering solutions along with my criticism.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not much at first. I dress plainly, don't have any particularly features that stand out...and yet, there's just something that screams different that you won't be able to put your finger on. Maybe you can let me in on the secret :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a voracious reader, love the arts (theatre, museums, concerts, etc), cooking, long walks on the beach in the evening, and world peace :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Theatre
- Books
- good food
- A passport
- Irish Whiskey
- Coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
World peace. Seriously. I'm a quaker!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's such a thing as a typical Friday night?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! I'm going to play THAT game...
You should message me if
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You're looking for a partner in crime and serious about getting to know someone in person. Short guys move to the head of the line. Be genuine, be intelligent, and for goodness sake have some passion that lights the fire in your life and propels you to the ethereal...