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44 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 27, 2014
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I think I'm fun. I like a sarcastic sense of humor and I'm a sucker for anyone who can really make me laugh hard. I like to get on a roll with someone and just get stupid silly. So if you're uptight, you can stop reading now because I will most likely go out of my way to horrify you if we spend time together. Nothing personal, it would just be too tempting for me.

I love travel and exploring my new surroundings. Just moved to the UES last summer.

I'm very athletic and I'm big into skiing and biking. I'm warm, compassionate, positive and nurturing. My friends have described me as authentic and have told me often that I have too big of a heart. Once I'm your friend I always have your back. I am far more into technology and sci fi than the average woman. I'm still 26 in my head.

I'm not perfect but I held up well and am constantly told I look younger than my age.

I'm happier with someone who is just looking for an equal partner with a brain and her own identity to share in the journey. I am not controlling or respond well to an attempt at controlling me.

I live on the Upper East side, I'm single and have one child aged 9 who lives with me most of the time.

Please don't contact me if you are just into a hookup. Not judging, it's just not my thing. Not in any hurry, but I'm not a 900 number either.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in the fun, cool, never-a-dull moment land of digital in NYC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing, being creative, planning vacations, thinking on the fly, staying calm in an emergency, odd ad hoc bits of knowledge, poking around with new technology, social banter, being real.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My very light blue eyes, and I often hear, "Gee you look JUST like this person I know."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Actually whatever looks good on my Roku. I'm still trying to get over the 5 minutes I lost of my life to Sharknado

I would bore you with my book selection. I like historical novels. I like Broadway, music is probably mostly techno and I still love Journey, food I'll try anything as long as it's not still moving or overly spicy. Sucker for good Indian food too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
jeans, computer, skis, good food, my mountain bike, road bike
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking. It's never quiet in there. Wish it was sometimes. And maybe trying to figure out how to achieve balance. I know it can be done!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working out, seeing friends, sleeping, trying oh-so-hard to really get organized this weekend! I swear it will happen someday (just before the Earth spins off its axis).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a weird memory. I thought it was normal to be able to recall conversations, things people wore, minor weird details, what the weather was like, twenty years ago, but apparently it's not. I realized I needed to hide that when I started freaking my friends out. Good thing is they can never argue with me over what happened when because they can't remember so I win by default. Not all the time, but I can usually look at something I own and tell you when and where I bought them. I'm not obsessive about it or anything, it's just a weird thing that I can do. But I'm terrible at remembering meeting times and I'd be lost without calendar reminders.

I'm also directionally challenged but somehow I always manage to get where I need to go.
You should message me if
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If I sound interesting, nothing I've said intimidated you, you're not married and looking for something to sneak on the side, you're not 12 or creepy.