I'm pretty fun, and like good intellectual banter. I like sarcasm a good witty, sarcastic sense of humor and I'm a sucker for anyone who can really make me laugh hard. I love to travel and exploring my new surroundings. I'm athletic, I'm big into skiing and biking. I enjoy it when someone can do this with me and then head in for a nice big, well-deserved meal afterward. I'm compassionate and nurturing. I am an adjunct grad professor where I teach topics on digital media. I am far more into technology and sci fi than the average woman.
I'm not looking for a prince charming, just someone to have fun with that I have a good connection with and who can get silly with me and go from there. I have my own career, identity and friends so I'm not looking for someone to define me or be my other half. While some would find the phrase, "you complete me," endearing, I know better. You should be a complete person all by yourself.
I'm be happier with someone who feels the same and is just looking for an equal partner to share in the journey. I'm not the controlling or hen-pecking type at all and I'm pretty easy going. I have no tolerance for people who are controlling of others. Life is way too short for that.
What I'm looking for...
A good guy who doesn't take himself too seriously but likes nice things. Someone with energy who has aspirations and a good outlook on life. Not a big fan of the screaming at the football game on the TV all Sunday long. If that's you, we're probably not a good match.
What I'm not looking for... men who are sorta kinda separated, but not really...I've been there. Call me when you are out of the house and the divorce is final please--not before.
Young guys in their 20s who are curious about just how awesome women in their 40s are in bed and in life. We are, but sorry, you're adorable but still too young.
Men who want to know if I'm interested in ones in an open relationship...I am not, thank you. I didn't spend all that $$$ to get out of my marriage and into yours.
Men who like women, but not sure if they like men too, and switch back and forth. Please, if you are still in that stage, let me know when you figure it out. It's too complicated for me.