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27 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 5:41pm
Black, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm DiJavante, hello!

Now that I am back home in San Jose, I am looking for some more friends and possibly more if something would turn into that.

I like to think that I'm shy, but I'm probably not. I really enjoy being around people, and laughing as much as possible. I also would like to make the world a better place one N'Sync song at a time. It's really the least we can do for our childrens' future. That, or something with climate change.
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently accepted a role in human resources at Facebook and just moved back to San Jose from a pretty long stay in Indiana.

Other than that, I enjoy going out with friends, traveling when I can, or just chilling at home with a book or Netflix. Also, apparently I'm at the age where everyone is getting married, so I've been to a lot of weddings of late, and I love it (most because singing and dancing while drinking free booze is pretty much the dream scenario).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drumming on everything.
Finishing an entire TV series on Netflix in less than two weeks.
Reading Harry Potter books over and over.
Drinking craft beer.
Not shaving my beard often enough.
Looking things up on Wikipedia.
Singing loudly while I drive.
Tweeting about politics, sports, and tv.
Smashing the patriarchy.
Caring too much about the Cubs, Bears, Bulls, Blackhawks and Notre Dame sports.
Talking in abundance about Scandal, How To Get Away With Murder, or The Walking Dead.

I feel like I should be good at more things, but quality is better than quantity.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile maybe. I smile a lot because I'm generally happy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books... The Giver, The Harry Potter Series, The Hobbit, Game of Thrones, Gods and Generals, The Pillars of the Earth, World Without End, etc.

Movies... The Pianist, Batman Begins, Pitch Perfect, The Dark Knight, The Dark Knight Rises, The Avengers, Pulp Fiction, almost all Pixar or Disney, Superbad, Shawshank Redemption, etc.

TV... Community, Scandal, Modern Family, New Girl, Sherlock, Parks and Rec, Doctor Who, Friday Night Lights, The Colbert Report, The Daily Show, Psych, LOST, The Closer, Scrubs, Criminal Minds, The Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Bob's Burgers, etc.

Music... The Roots, Alicia Keys, Queen, Prince, Michael Jackson, Talib Kweli, Kanye West, Childish Gambino, Lupe Fiasco, NERD, Temptations, Black Keys, The Beatles, Adele, Janelle Monaé, Outkast, Dave Mathews Band, etc.

Food... I'll try anything, but I love some good homemade tacos, pho, In-N-Out, fresh salsa, and Sriracha on everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good book.
My iPhone.
A good pair of headphones.
My drum pad.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics... But not necessarily the horse-race stuff often on the news. I usually am reading and listening to news regarding policy and the effects of that on the country. I'm a progressive, so poverty, feminism, the environment, LGBTQ rights and anti-racism are big topics for me.

Music... I enjoy music a lot, and hearing different kinds of music really helps make a person more complete, so I listen to different genres and groups as much as possible. And by different genres, I truly mean it. I'll try just about anything.

Sports... I know, typical guy, but watching and sometimes playing sports is quite fun for me. I'm Bears, Bulls, Cubs, Blackhawks, and Notre Dame fan. The fall is for football, and I love to watch Notre Dame and Bears games every week. Also, I love to golf, whether that's playing a quick 9 holes or just going to the range. I don't expect everyone to participate in my sports fandom, so don't worry, it's no deal-breaker.

My future... Moving back home after about 9 years in Indiana is pretty huge for me, so I'm constantly wondering what's next. And that's personally and professionally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not out dancing, singing, drinking, and other such shenanigans with friends, then I'm probably chillin' at home watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have seen Frozen and Pitch Perfect more than you (and loved them every single time).
You should message me if
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You want to watch Netflix together while discussing the importance of intersectionality in feminism and racial politics.

Or whatever...

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