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29 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–38
  • Located anywhere
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My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:25pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Russian (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Quiet, nerdy. Somewhat queer.

I currently spend a lot of time coding. In the past I spent a lot of time teaching physics, playing poker and playing piano.

I periodically undergo extended periods of traveling and/or bumhood.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am healthy now! I was sick for half a year, so I am rediscovering some really pleasant things about life. Eating, sleeping, and thinking normally are all really high up on my things-that-are-great list.

Apparently I also want to meet people more, since I am updating my OkCupid profile :p. At the same time, I am working a lot. So I don't actually have a lot of time to do this...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
living stories. I'm less good at actually telling these stories later, but you can check out some of them at
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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On piano, Chopin nocturnes for the emotions and Bach inventions for the rationality. On guitar, I usually strum some chords and hopefully someone else sings.

In the kitchen, I'm happy when the rosemary, basil, and garlic are fresh rather than dried.

Catch-22 appealed to my cynicism and pacifism. The Little Prince appealed to my romanticism and idealism. A few works by Ursula Le Guin appealed to my queerness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Essential: food, clothing, sleeping bag, laptop, and either a backpack to carry these or a room to put them in.

Highly desirable: thermarest/mattress, sheets, towel, piano, guitar, smartphone, coffee, leatherman, flashlight, toothbrush+toothpaste, deodorant
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Which risks are worth taking for the sake of adventure.
Whether I'm still happy with my choice not to have a career.
Whether I'm doing as much for people as they're doing for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I watched a movie and listened to people talk about politics this Friday, and played poker the previous Friday. I suspect that I will spend next two Friday nights collapsed in my bed, and the Friday night after that on a plane to see a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty good at lying.

I have zero inclination to marry, and I am often some mix of asocial/asexual/lazy to be in romantic relationships.
You should message me if
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I would love a hiking/backpacking/cycling/hitchhiking/couchsurfing/etc friend. Especially if you are willing to forgive me for not having much time to do it in the next while.

Also, I would love people to play classical music with. Looking for a social thing, not people to perform with. I especially like four-hands piano.

I could probably also use a friend to try out new restaurants and/or cook with.

In terms of logistics: I mostly spend weekends in west Menlo Park, and weekdays in SF (sleep in Mission, work by Montgomery BART).

The most convenient (for me) way to get in touch with me is to email at [my first name].[my last name] at gmail. My first and last name are in a link on this profile.