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35 Melbourne, Australia Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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Last online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Mostly non-monogamous

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My self-summary
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I'm here!

Creative artist (drawing, street theatre, acrobatics)
Community worker
Curious about the world

Staying busy is important to me and I am mostly attracted to other people who are passionate about something (usually arts based) and have some level of ambition about their life and goals.

I am also a traveler, whether that means within Australia or outside of it. I am very much in to learning about the world as well as following interesting oppourtunities as they arise. Any long-term partner for me has to have a similar lifestyle and be flexible to moving around and having new, far flung adventures!
What I’m doing with my life
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I have just returned to Australia after 6 and a half years away. I've returned to Melbourne after about 10 years away from the city. I spent most of that time away in Canada, on Vancouver Island and also Winnipeg. I have spent some time also in Ireland, Portugal and the USA. Whilst working on my "career" I have been working as an addictions counsellor (with an arts focus), but have also mixed things up a bit by working on farms and gardens, in coffee shops and a hostel. For my spirit I have played in bands (folk, punk and most recently a radical marching band).

I've returned to Melbourne with the express purpose of working on my Masters of Social Work.

I am a loyal friend and enjoy spending quality time with good people. I try to be as creative and artistic as my life will allow and usually have some art project or another on the go.
I’m really good at
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Singing, listening, swimming, philosophizing, conversation, snuggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A friend once told me that when I smile genuinely, I smile with my eyes, whatever that means...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction - I like tripped out authors like authors like Tom Robbins and Kurt Vonnegut, as well as dystopian fiction from the likes of Philip K Dick and Margeret Atwood. I also have a thing for illustration and picture books.

Movies - Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Once, A Cabin in the Woods, art house stuff, spooky stuff. Willy Wonka is my all time favourite movie - the one with Gene Wilder, of course!

Shows- Six Feet Under, Treme, Big Love, Carnivale, I don't really watch tv all that often, but I do like HBO dramas.

Music - Iron & Wine, Bonnie Prince Billy, Bill Callahan, Holly Throsby, Gogol Bordello, Keaton Henson, The Lucksmiths, Glen Hansard & the Frames... Way too many musical interests and influences to list. Folk, rock, indie pop....

Food - I'm a vegetarian, but not the type that freaks out about other people's dietary choices. I love baked goods, probably too much...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My guitar
My iPod
Marker & notebook
My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next travel destination, my next art project, the ethics of being a human creature, therapeutic communities, the interpretation of my weird dreams, songwriting, music....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or tucked away studying and/or plinky-plonkying away on my guitar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty obsessive about laundry and have a very particular way I like to fold my clothes.
You should message me if
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you like coffee and conversation and want to help me rediscover Melbourne after all this time.