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22 M Far Rockaway, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:33pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
At the most inopportune moments i'll come up with something incredibly witty, with just the right amount of self deprecating humor and charm, and i'll think to myself, "jeez, I should put that as my self summary on OKC!"

Then I log on, and i'm just staring at this blank white space, like : |

What I’m doing with my life
Office man by day, powerlifter by evenings, and bartender by nights!

Also I write, got published for the first time recently which was cool, trying to make that happen again and more often. Would be nice to meet some fellow writers, and exchange and openly critique stuff. If you're open to that hit me up!
I’m really good at
Looking like i'm completely zoned out and not paying attention, yet knowing exactly what is going on around me at all times. Probably a by product of growing up in a real shitty part of NY...

I've yet to realize how to put this skill to good use though, feel free to suggest any ideas you might have.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've got kind of broad shoulders, i've been told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
It seems daunting, this question! I'll go for an abridged version with favorites.

Raymond Carver, Denis Johnson, Dostoyevsky, Chekhov.

Nick Cave, Dylan, The National, Tupac, Stevie Wonder, Alice Cooper, Radiohead, Tom Waits, Leonard Cohen J Cole, Biggie, Al Green, CunninLynguists.

The Panic in Needle Park, Midnight Cowboy, Bananas, Match Point, Shame, Drive, Blue Valentine.

Food - anything, "i'm bulking, brah."
The six things I could never do without
Immediate family. My mother, my father and my two brothers. Does that count as four? I dunno, don't want to break any of these here OKC rules.

My notebook, it goes everywhere with me; and a decent pen. I've given up on writing something if the utensil doesn't feel right. Trite, I know.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Often, I find that when people discover I ride a motorcycle, their reaction is a negative one.

"That thing will kill you!"

It definitely can, THAT is why I ride it. There is a meditative quiet you have when keeping upright and alive is your single task during your morning commute. If you had any idea what sort of negative and destructive thoughts continually rattle around in my head on a regular basis, you'd realize that this thing keeps me alive.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually bartending till 4 in the morning, I love it though.

If I do have the night off, interesting enough, i'm not too big on going crazy, more often than not I prefer low key hanging with friends, or catching up with my brothers; 9 year old one is one of my favorite people to be around, he's moderately autistic, so I like spending time with him and picking his brain as best I can.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes skip leg day.

AND sometimes I like being the little spoon.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have slightly messed up teeth, for some reason I like that.