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dirty63daddy

58 / M / straight / Available

Shawnee, Oklahoma

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am intelligent, witty, and evil/kinky.

My Self-Summary

"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, totally worn out and proclaiming. "Wow, what a ride!" - author unknown

IF someone had told me, several years ago, that I'd be at this place in my life, I would have thought they were crazy! Who knew? But I"m definitely enjoying the journey and totally open to where it might take me. Like they say, the possibilities are endless.....

What I’m doing with my life

Currently in a long-term open relationship with a female partner I live with. It's been the best thing to happen to us in the over five years we've been together. We're both aware of the other's playmates and don't have to be involved. If you're interested, we'd be glad to have you join us both.

Trying to have as much fun and adventure as possible, when I'm not doing that whole work thing, which is pretty much M-F 9-5. Career is important also, but it's definitely not my entire life. I am intelligent, a well-educated professional, and hard worker.

I get along with pretty much anyone, am open-minded and non-judgmental. Hey, how can I judge someone else if I don't want anyone judging me? I am a bit shy at first with new people but not for long.

I’m really good at

lots of things...fixing things, electronics, history, cooking, plumbing

When it comes to women, I'm a bit sadistic and evil. I enjoy giving a bit of pain to someone who enjoys getting it. I am into mild to moderate BDSM. I like to tie or restrain my victims but don't make a big show of it. As long as she ain't goin' no where, I'm pretty much good with it. More evil-Top than Dom and I'm looking for a bottom or submissive. I enjoy doling out discipline as part of play/scene, some roll-playing at times, perhaps, to keep things interesting. And, well... you get the idea.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, they're blue or green or some combination depending on my mood, or my hair (weg). Not sure what else beyond that....

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books... Sci Fi, action drama, Dan Brown, Clive Cussler, Ludlum, Dale Brown, Michael Crichton, Tom Clancy, Stephen Coonts (not Koonz the horror writer), Larry Bond, Robin Cook and Louis L'amour... I think you get the idea.

Music is light jazz, some blues... in fact, most genres with the exceptions of HEAVY metal and (C)rap. I like Eva Cassidy, John Denver, Simon & Garfunkle, Neil Diamond and so on.

Movies... comedy, sci fi, action, even things like "Ice Age"

The six things I could never do without

My daughters, though they long since moved away; a non-vanilla lifestyle; Chinese food; books; supportive/loving friends & family; and sleep!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

good girls, naughty girls, bad girls...

On a typical Friday night I am

worn out from a week of work and wishing I had a girl to play with

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

not much... contact me if you are truly interested.

You should message me if

...you've read this far

....something I wrote made you say "Hmmm...."

...you've been looking for an evil and kinky guy, and want to hear more about me and the evil/nasty/kinky/FUN!! things we could do

...AND you are female. I am NOT interested in males of any species