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44 Adams, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 40–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't put other people into conveniently labeled little boxes so I think I will skip doing that to myself for the moment!
I am a radical feminist with a keen nose for any hint of creeping patriarchy, the silent killer. That said, I am also a yogi who believes that anger is an acid that does much more damage to the container holding it than to anything it is poured on.
I try not to start grasping.
Even to the idea of putting down or letting go.
And there is one thing I know
That is that I
Will never reply
If you fill in none of the detail
Required for this kind of retail
Dating where the only shot I have
At any advantage
When a co-operator is faced with
The competitive nature
Of those sporting the y chromosome
Is if I have the advantage
Of forethought in our interaction
So no pics and not stats?
I say absolutely no to that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have no idea! I an in a place of transition and flux... I guess I would call it a midlife crisis except that it isn't a crisis. I am open to what comes and facing my uncertain future with open eyes and open arms even though it can be scary.
I have recently combined my two best girls, activism amd direct education and sat at the table with the two, as well as my obsession with food... A boon to my friends and family! I am a chef at a local organic market. No, I don't get to feed anywhere near to most people, probably not even most tourists here in the beautiful Berkshires.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Connecting with people so they feel valued for their humanity, even if they are strangers. I like to listen to people telling the stories that shape who they are and how they see the world.

I am an excellent teacher of all things food, from production to presentation.

Looking much better than I appear in photos, I have recently realized.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People usually notice my smile. I am friendly and outgoing and I strive to be mostly harmless... meaning I expect to get back exactly what I am putting out there so I strive to be kind.
That I am fit and yet appear to consume a ridiculous number of calories...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read A LOT. Urban fantasy, sci-fi, speculative fiction, biography, philosophy, cookbooks, literary journals. I am intrigued by all of the ways there are to be a human experiencing a corporeal existence on this big blue ball. I have never had cable, but I like movies. I read enough that I don't spend much time on them. I really enjoy good, semi-professional live theater, so living in the Berkshires is a treat. I love to cook, always have, and have a great fondness for homemade food. I also think that everything tastes best when it's made with focus and attention by someone else! I am a huge Ani Difranco fan and have been known to quip that there are times that I feel like she has written the soundtrack of my life, as absolutely dorky as that sounds. I should probably mention here that I love slam poetry and most other forms of spoken word. Music is generally really important to me and I think that " if it sounds good it is good" in the words of Duke Ellington. I listen to a pretty broad range of styles from funk to bluegrass to hiphop to jazz to punk. I am a sucker for a good lyric set over a funky dance beat. Lords of Acid and Balkan Beat Box are at the top of the list for the moment.
I disappear from the world for the month of April, annually, to write poetry.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The six things I could never do without? I try really hard not to be too attached to any things! But I guess my car... Because of the freedom it represents. And the mountain i live at the base of, for the refuge it provides. My yoga mat, because of how centered and certain I feel when I use it. My water bottle, because I try to refuse single use. My Journal, around which I truly try to organize my self. And my mattress, that lets me recover overnight to get up and do it all again!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the next phase of my life is going to look like and what I can to to be sure it is as expansive and full of lovingkindness as possible.
Whether a relationship that is full of kindness AND kink is simply too paradoxical for this life of mine. And right now, what the hell is autocorrecting my use of the word too in the previous sentence!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading a book or dancing my ass off!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not very private... So ask me something and I will let ya know!

I think I find it difficult to come to orgasm with another person paying attention to the fact that I am. It's a stretch to even type this. Lol
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My so far profile doesn't make you want to run screaming... Or maybe if it does! Hah! But really if you are into live music, a good conversation, going out for a coffee, taking a walk or a hike, catching a movie, whatever. And especially if you are curious about life, the universe and everything. And you would enjoy an exercise in restraint.