For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
Jul 11, 2012
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Likes dogs and has cats
Haven't been on here in over a year. Since I went on my first date
with my now husband aialonso An okcupid success! =) Sorry
for not coming back to anyone I owed a response to. =/ my bad.
Guess I got kinda swept away. <3
I'm complex, intellectual, compassionate, passionate, kind of
radically liberal but not in the way you might think. Some would
say opinionated but that's just a slam used by those who can't keep
up. I'm actually very open minded and give more room than most for
personal opinions. I have a very kind heart despite my outer shell,
and an awesome sense of humor. I'm sort of a guy inside.
I'm a natural woman. =) that's code for I am a dirty hippie. I
don't shave my pits and I don't wear deodorant. (Antiperspirant
will give you Alzheimer's ya know) <--- [DISCLAIMER - This
comment is not me saying that I believe it is a proven scientific
fact that you will get Alzheimer's if you ever put antiperspirant
on. It's a slightly tongue in cheek way of saying that toxins cause
or contribute to disease, and this is why I avoid them when I can.]
My breasts are real, my haircolor is real, my fingernails are real,
etc. I've been known to skip a shower... or 3.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a social activist. We're screwed if we can't learn to respect
each other as equals. This happens in childhood so I advocate for
peaceful healthy birth, genital integrity (no circumcision), no
spanking or hitting of any kind, and breastfeeding. After that I'm
OK OK... some hobbies: I recycle everything, I compost. HOBBIES
DAMN IT! ...I knit, I like movies, I make artsy stuff sometimes, I
color (like, in a coloring book - don't judge, I have one of
I’m really good at
I give great advice. I see outside the box. I'm pretty patient and
that makes me good at lots of stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
Aside from the 5 feet of hair: I'm different. I get "you're the
most interesting person I've ever met" a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Deep, heavy, brainy stuff. Poetic or moving. Quantum
A Patch of Blue. The Virtue of Selfishness. When Elephants Weep.
Magical Mind, Magical Body
Life is Beautiful. Fantastic Planet. Shawshank Redemption. Quest
for Fire. The Life of David Gale. Amelie.
I have a LOT of music sung in other languages for someone who
doesn't frequently buy music. I love most music, my tastes are
Most TV is shit. sit-coms are the bane of society. If you don't
have a real hero, you're just adding to the problem.
The new Dr. Who. Dexter (not the last 2 minutes tho, that was shit)
Scrubs is actually a pretty decent show.
I love ethnic food. I don't eat shit because I don't want cancer.
(FYI: the government allows big business to put toxic shit into
The six things I could never do without
The word shit apparently... Did you see that^?
Never say never. Unless it actually applies of course.
I often think about what I'll miss the most after the social
Cheese. god I love cheese.
Being warm despite the weather
The right to my soapbox
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make things better.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm a super homebody. That's why I'm here.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want an intact man (romance wise). That means has not been
circumcised. This isn't me being shallow, I promise. The short of
it is: circumcision changes the penis in a functional way, and I
cannot fully and freely enjoy that kind of sex. Yes, this is a
It's possible to manually restore your foreskin: NORM.org
The medium of it:
Once the man has penetrated, the skin is pulled back to the base of
the penis and when there's outward motion the foreskin is what
slides up the penis, NOT the vaginal skin. This keeps the wet
inside, instead of dragging it out with every movement (and
exposing it to the air where it dries), and reduces
irritating/distracting friction for the woman. (there are no
friction sensitive nerves in the vagina, only pressure sensitive
nerves) An intact man has better sensation all the way down his
shaft instead of just at the head, so his strokes are deeper and
shorter, (keeping the partners close and intimate) whereas the c'ed
man wants to stimulate the head (the most sensitive part of the
penis after the foreskin is removed) by pulling it out to the
tighter vaginal opening. This contributes to drying and can cause
air to be pulled into the vagina. Needing more stimulation due to
keratinization, the c'ed man tends to pound harder, which can be
fun sometimes, but not as a constant need. It can be difficult in
addition to drying. Naturally there's a variable here...not
everyone is the same. The foreskin isn't just MORE sensitivity, but
a bigger variety of sensations. there are stretch receptors and
Meisner's corpuscles. There are also positive mood effects of the
man absorbing vaginal fluid (as there is with injesting/absorbing
semen for the woman) which is limited by keratinization and
removing mucosal surface area of the penis and estrogen
For the long of it, check out sexasnatureintendedit.com
You should message me if
You know what honesty is and why it's important.
You take good care of your body and your earth.
You have read all of the above and you are capable of saying
something other than asking me for my personal information, how I'm
doing, or coming on to me. A message like that gets deleted
Also, if you're 'short' don't think that you need a girl that's 4
inches shorter than you. I like short. =)
NO bigots. NO smokers.
Also, this isn't a place for debate, it's a place for people to
find people they have an interest in. Do not message me if you're a
douche who only wants to tell me how wrong I am. I'm SO not
interested. I'm sorry if the info I share makes you feel bad,
that's not my intention.