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35 Virginia Beach, VA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm 35 and I know I'm imperfect, been wearing a too-too (too fat, too late, too old) for awhile. Should this negate the fact that I'm passionate, caring, loyal and fun?

I've had an interesting year where a lot of the things in my life are rapidly changing, I've lost over 60 pounds in the last few months and am beginning to live a much healthier lifestyle. Someone to be active with would be a great thing to have.

I work for a local college which has me driving from campus to campus all across Hampton Roads on a daily basis. I like comic books, good movies, great reads, hanging out with my friends. I'm also an aspiring filmmaker looking to one day make his first movie. I'm a geek, but I'm a fun geek. I'm a smart-ass but I'm always doing my best to make people laugh and have a good time.

I'm looking for someone who can prove to me that Leonard Cohen was wrong when he wrote: "Love is not a victory march, it's a cold and it's a broken Hallelujah."
What I’m doing with my life
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By day I help faculty by teaching them how to incorporate new technology into the way they teach, by night I create my own content. Been working on several screenplays for a long time now and one of these days I will stop hesitating and make my film.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
building things, surprisingly. I didn't realize it was a skill set I possessed until a few years ago. I'm also quite good at finding ways to improve other peoples writing, though less efficient noticing the flaws in my own.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the fact that I am almost always wearing a hooded jacket. If they get close though, they notice my eyes are VERY blue (except when they're green.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Roman Britain Trilogy, Sword at Sunset, The Dark Tower Series, Lord of the Rings, the original Ian Fleming James Bond novels, The Bourne Identity, 11/22/68, The Dead Zone, Paper Towns, The Fault in our Stars

Shows: Burn Notice, Big Bang Theory, DOCTOR WHO, Top Gear (UK), How I Met Your Mother, Fringe, Angel, Highlander, The West Wing, Castle, Buffy, The Dead Zone, Sports Night, Studio 60

Music: The Clash, Barenaked Ladies, U2, The Connells, Cracker, Run DMC, Letters to Cleo, The Handcuffs and Big Hello, Falstaff, Nirvana, Public Enemy, Ida Maria, Liz Phair

Movies: Empire Strikes Back, Halloween, Scream, Superman: The Movie, Star Wars, Jedi, Chasing Amy, Clerks, Clerks II, Good Will Hunting, Pulp Fiction, Casino Royale, GoldenEye, The Dark Knight

Food: Tortellini, Steak, Pizza, Chicken
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cell phone, my ipad, my ipod, my car, my wallet, and a pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it means to be a thirtysomething who hasn't done everything with his life he thought he would have done back when he was a teenager.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I once punched a Klingon at Paramount's Kings Dominion and was asked to leave the park and not return.
You should message me if
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anything I've said is interesting to you, or if you agree with zefrank when he says "Perfectionism may look good in his shiny shoes but he's a little bit of an asshole and no one invites him to their pool parties.