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discernist

33 Huntsville, AL Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 6:53pm
Orientation
Straight
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"To note that the thing I call my individuality is only a pattern or dance, that is what it means when one discovers how long it takes for the atoms of the brain to be replaced by other atoms. The atoms come into my brain, dance a dance, and then go out—there are always new atoms, but always doing the same dance, remembering what the dance was yesterday." (Richard Feynman)

I loved this and definitely relate: "My personality is full of contradictions. I am genuinely disinterested in fitting-in, but also feel the need to be liked by everyone. I find people fascinating, but don't like most of them." (okc user in Alaska)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"Most of my fantasies are of making someone else come / Most of my fantasies are to be of use / Oh, like a spindle, or like a candle, or like a horseshoe, or like a corkscrew" (Bill Callahan)

"[W]hen asked to describe their lives, what's interesting is how few people said, "mess". It's probably the best answer." (Tyler Cowen)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
moving, typing, massage, observation, flattery, jaywalking, driving, objectivity, acceptance, forgiveness, change, whistling, self portraits, hand percussion, makeshift solutions, expressing myself, asking questions, washing dishes, killing flies, catching things (thrown and falling), making sandwiches, body language, crossing the street, keeping my balance, adjusting the volume, making fun of myself, making fun of others, carrying awkward and/or heavy collections of things, admitting I'm wrong or I've mishandled something, the composition part of things, particularly photography
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Walks too fast, sweats too much, and I'm pretty direct.

"You cut the crap out of everything."

I got "wit" as an outsourced answer. Often hear that I'm "sweet" and "intense".

Some people seem to think I'm this very serious guy, but then I make some other people laugh pretty hard. Hell if I know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Blah blah blah, blablablablah

Favoritism stresses me out.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sports / food / words / science / women / my work / my coworkers / my friends / my family

who are you? / what's the subtext? / wtf is this person on about? / shut the fuck up complaining, nobody cares / can we please talk about something beside people who aren't here, or times other than now? / picking my battles / how am I fooling myself today? / wtf are you on about, self? / how not to be neurotic

is that the best way to do this? / do I even want to do this? / do I have the time and energy to care about this? / how can I organize this shit? / how can I make this easier?

well, that's cool / well, that sucks / moving on / fuck, I forgot to do that thing

remember, nothing really matters / we're ants / call mom
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hell if I could say.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
totally depends on what you're ready to hear. I don't keep stuff from people because I'm shy, but because I sense intolerance.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Just don't ask me my sign. I'm a do not disturb sign.