I'm just ending (or perhaps working on) a serious romantic relationship, so I'm really not looking for dates right now. I'm mostly keeping this account up since I have friends here and I love hearing from them. I wish all the rest of you bon chance and best wishes here.
I'm a creative person who enjoys city adventures, thoughtful debauchery, and intellectual challenges.
A few quick classifications: I'm a Myers-Briggs INTP (the "architect", so interested in the forest I keep running head-first into these crazy trees), a feminist, and a secular humanist semi-lapsed Unitarian Universalist. I'm long out of school but seem to always be a lifelong academic learner and a political gadfly.
I'm delighted with where I am and who I am: I'm not looking for someone to complete me or compete with me. I hope that's the same for you, too.
I've had a number of successful poly or open relationships in my life and found that those are what I'm most likely to be happy in.
I love to meet interesting people for anything ranging from tea to bike rides to fun sex to photo walks to serious dating. Combinations thereof also highly appreciated.
... And, as my profile used to say at the top (before they nuked that feature):