(Nicht auf falsche Gedanken kommen... ich bin zwar Amerikaner, kann aber nach 6-7 Jahren hierzulande schon ordentlich Deutsch! Ich antworte gern in der einen oder anderen Sprache... oder sogar auf Chinesisch, wenn dir danach ist :P)
用漢語跟我聯絡就可以！ ^_^

So... perhaps you've noticed I like languages... ^^ There's some quote from someone somewhere out there about gaining another soul by learning another language, but I'm too lazy to go look for it :P even though I agree.

Grew up in the USA, have lived in Germany (current home), the UK and China in a never-ending series of challenges in figuring out how others live and coming up again and again against what I take for granted about my own upbringing and cultural background... i hope to always have new challenges like these to accompany me through my whole life. :)

I'm a quiet sissy boy at heart and dislike almost every sex-based role that men are expected to fulfill... physical strength, lack of emotional vulnerability, leadership, decisiveness, domination, competition - forget it, not me. I'm generally attracted to dominant and curvy women and other sissy boys like me, though the discoveries on which my preferences are based are never exhaustive... ;)

Is it a bad sign that I'm pressed for things to think of beyond work? :/ My 9-to-5 (which I wish were more like a 12-to-4 so I'd have some life left over to enjoy) is as a proofreader and translator in an office. I've never read so many work contracts, instruction manuals and CV cover letters in my life... it's a bit dry, but I'm at least improving my reading skills and learning new stuff. That's about 50% at the moment... the other 50% is eating, sleeping, traveling, reading, bike rides, going dancing...

Becoming overwhelmed with details and possible scenarios, panicking, and becoming exhausted as a result :/ could use some help with this, actually...

So young, so bald... so sad.

"OH MY GOD ALMIGHTY, SOMEONE HAS SENT ME A BOWEL MOVEMENT!"

Meet me at the Arsenal in Berlin... :) :)

These days, documentaries and queer cinema... and of course queer documentaries ^^

Grotesque/black humor, no-budget melodrama with a sense of humor, splatter/horror and satire are always good (preferably all at once) - John Waters and his myriad influences, early Peter Jackson (Feebles/Bad Taste), Kuchars/Anger/Cockettes/Warhol/Jack Smith/...

Pre-code (1934) Hollywood :) Marlene Dietrich, Mae West and Greta Garbo still kick so much ass :D and Cary Grant will always be un-fuck-withable...

"TV is the opiate of the masses" (identify the film quote and I'll buy you a drink ;) , but.... Party Down, Reno 911!, The State, Wonder Showzen, Strangers With Candy, The League of Gentlemen, Mighty Boosh, AbFab, Kids in the Hall, Adventures of Pete & Pete, Muppet Show, Oblongs, The Wire, My So-Called Life, Twilight Zone, Twin Peaks, Riget/Kingdom... German TV, sorry boutcha, but all I can think of is Bernd das Brot

Oh, what? Non-film things? Um..
I listen to a lot of music. Occasionally, when no one's there, I play and sing.
I don't read so often, but I want to change this (working now on The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy and Opening Up by Tristan Taormino).
Little by little, I'm getting better at vegetarian cooking. Won't you let me cook for you? :)

1. Bicycle
2. Brass instrument - preferably trumpet, but euphonium or mellophone acceptable substitutes...
3. Bear, Teddy - unless someone is keeping me warm at night ;)
4. Beard - or at least the ability to grow one at will
5. Black sparkle nail polish
6. Butt plug :P

Sex, and all the things I still want to try/get better at...

Google maps, and all the places I still want to go...

Life, and whether I'll get to know every part of me before it's over... (hm, bit cheesy perhaps...)

Recovering from my week with some quiet music, maybe singing along :) and curling up with a blanket and some tea getting ready to drift off early and make up for the sleep I've deprived myself of during the week. Saturday night, however, is a different story.

Sit on my face and I'll tell you :P

Ha. Ok, seriously, that I want very badly to be in a committed triad/threesome relationship with a woman and another man. I spent about three hours today oblivious to the world, completely immersed in my daydream about the three of us... we all come from different countries and speak different languages that we teach each other (today it was English (me), Spanish (him) and Dutch (her)), we own some land with a nudist weed farm/garden (ok, we grow other things, too... vegetables or something), are awaiting the birth of twins, have our morning and evening singing/music meditation sessions, and exude a radiant glow from the warmth and body contact after each night in our communal bed that makes our bosses wonder what they're missing in life. ^^ oh, and in the chest at the foot of the bed is our video library of all the nasty, raunchy hours we've spent together ;)

you want to go with me to...

the sex magick workshop with the radical faeries at folleterre near belfort, france (men) http://www.folleterre.org/

the guca trumpet festival in Serbia (2nd week of August) http://gucasabor.com/en/

you're queer(-friendly) and/or poly(-friendly), you're sweet, funny, cuddly and gentle :)