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50 M Campbell, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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First, last, and always a gentleman. Dad of two teens (boy and girl), (great thing about daughters is they give you a perspective on life you would never have otherwise). Tech Exec, Musician, Writer, sometimes Producer, wannabe Director, who enjoys physical / outdoor activities, live shows, nights in, nights out, just kickin it or doing interesting things. Health conscious, spiritually in-tune, well educated and street wise, intellectual, sometimes goofy, frequently funny, well traveled, well read, well well well, down to earth, fiscally conservative, socially liberal, macro interest with occasional micro focus, globally conscious, internet ready with liberty and justice for all :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Working and raising two kids. Getting my zen on to maintain "life balance". Sometimes more yang than yin (which one if the good one? does it matter? what's a yang anyway?) Like to take awesome vacations - photo safaris in Africa, sailing in Norway/Sweden, snorkeling Great Barrier Reef, Pyramids in Mexico, Island life in Hawaii, Ashram in India, Canadian Rockies, up for anything as long as its unusual.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think anyone can learn anything if they just set their mind to it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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eyes, whit, presence, sense of humor, aversion to small talk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have little time for pleasure reading, but if I do its classic poetry or novels (Pope, Frost, Dickens, Joyce).

Like movies, don't watch TV much (except Garfunkel & Oats and The Black List), mostly just movies. Two years of film history so my taste are wide ranging on flicks, just looking for a good story well told. The Other Guys (best comedy of all time).

I love all music, even some great rap songs but mostly into alt rock, classic rock, some country rock, some jazz (not the irritating kind people pretend to like) and yes I seriously like opera and classical (especially live).

Love live theater as well and am in London a few times a year so always hit Charing Cross in the West End (so if you know, you know).

Food, I don't eat beef or pork or lamb (4 years now), and I do love the seafood (Pescatarian). I don't drink soda but do enjoy a cold craft beer and great wines, maybe a bourbon occasionally. I like to cook when I have time. Wine enthusiast and like learning about it, but by no means advanced, but very interested in learning more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dark Chocolate, Dark Chocolate with Almonds, and Acai covered with ..... guess

My kids of course (guess I should probably list them first)

Some musical instrument to goof around with (I play guitar, drums, keyboards, bass, percussion, tried trumpet, sitar is my next target)

A great mattress

Something new to be learning

Peace from the stress of nerotic people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to work less

My Next Vacation

Music, Film, Sculpture, Painting

My kids, their health, their happiness, their grades, their next level of education, their future

The human condition

Origins of the universe and it's final destination

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
typical, ya right
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I crave the company of highly intelligent (or at least semi-interesting) people having conversations about deep and serious (or at least thought provoking) things I know nothing or little about (so I can just listen, absorb, and learn).
You should message me if
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You are a good person, happy person, fun person, human person. Don't have a bunch of crazy rules listed in your profile, you are easy going and light hearted, but know where you stand and are down to earth. You can explore deeper things and then be a funky dork too and its all good.