Re: self-development, I am interested in Sufism and the transformation qualities of love.
My natural energy/pace is pretty high. Some would say it borders on intense. This is dependent on my mood. Probably looking for someone who can counterbalance that. However, some of the most rewarding relationships of my life have been born from the tension created by engaging with others of a similar energy.
Moving outside of my comfort zone is important to me. Primarily, this is expressed through a desire/need to experience the 'new.' I can be incredibly spontaneous, yet I find change destabilizing. I don't believe in dichotomies.