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djc43933

42 F Atlanta, GA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 32–46
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:54am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Education
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Czech (Okay), German (Okay), Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe it is time for some tweaking of my profile. Originally when I set this account up about 1+ year ago, I had a certain mindset. I was accustomed to needy, non motivated, lack of drive type men who attached themselves to a highly motivated, optimistic, driven woman such as myself. So I wanted to seek change. The profile developed on the heels of having a few dates with a real man, a refreshing change that was quite welcome. I recognized I desire a man of well roundedness. (doesn't mean in body type) This was what I was actually looking for. I closed this account about 1 year ago, I recently reopened it without having updated. Truth is, I've spent the past year learning about myself and what I actually need. I discovered, what I thought I wanted wasn't what I needed. I am actually slightly embarrassed by the old profile as it made me sound a bit fickle, sorry about that. If this is your 1st glance at me, then I am glad you are meeting the proper me. We all grow, at least we should be growing, I am growing and beginning to see the whole picture now. I think this new and improved profile is much more clearly written and explanatory of my intensions. It's simpler for me to specify what I do not want, so I believe I should begin there. With all of this being said, I am seriously interested in finding a man to share lifes journey with. Please do not send messages to my inbox that you already understand will never be replied to. Thanks!

The Don't List:

I don't want to have to ask if you are still married or in a relationship. If you are, know there is zero possibility of us happening.

I don't want a smoker. I lead a very healthy lifestyle. Trying to hide that you smoke to a nonsmoker is a losing battle.

I don't want someone who has his priorities out of line. Please be prepared to keep your "A" game on for longer than a month or so.

I am a Christian. I do not want my faith to be made a joke of. I won't do that to you. I respect you, you respect me.

I don't want to have our entire free time be spent sitting around. I love life and I'm full of energy. I need a man who is excited to explore life with me. Relaxing should happen, it shouldn't out weigh activity.

I am sure there will be more to add to this don't list. For now, I believe you will get the point. Let me in closing do the best I can to cover who I am.

I am a hard working, optimistic, hopeless romantic woman who desires to find a man that I can admire, desire and respect. He will cherish, adore and desire me. I am affectionate and passionate. My man will know I am into him.

I am a stellar communicator who wears her heart on her sleeves. Sure it makes me vulnerable. I happen to be a risk taker, I can only be me. Being anyone else just won't do. A man will never question if we are ON. I will tell him. A man will never wonder if I want him to call me, text me, kiss me...I will just say so. Seriously guys, I am here to take the guess work out for you. I am all grown up and I'm capable of expressing to you what I need, want, desire. No guessing necessary.

I'd like for you to lead us, be the majority decision maker. I only ask you to consider me when making decisions.

My friends call me appropriately assertive. I am not wishy washy nor the boss of the whole wide world.

Whilst having fun is something I do daily, that doesn't mean it has to involve alcohol. I went for 12+ years without it just because. I could go with or without it moving forward.

I lead an active lifestyle. I want you to as well. I backpack miles upon miles. I sleep in tents with critters and dirt all around me...and I ♡ it!! No sissy :)
I rock climb, kayak through rapids and scramble through things most women wouldn't even entertain in their worst of nightmares.

I am very nurturing. I have my own business that turns mountains into molehills for others. I am an excellent multi-tasker. I make my bed daily and prefer to not leave dirty dishes in the sink over night.

I have teenagers, not babes so I do have free time to see you.

I am adventurous and enjoy doing new things, in new places, with new people. I am capable of being your great friend if we determine we aren't dating material.

I am low maintenance, the simplier the better. I am not a fancy chic. I have no debt. If I don't have a dollar, I don't spend 1. I am minimalistic. I love quality time more than all the expensive gifts you could give me. I enjoy letting you know I am thinking of you by text, call, note in your lunchbox.

I love to cook and I am the creative type in the kitchen. I would love to prepare a delicious meal for you or homemade waffles with yogurt, granola and fruit for breakfast. If it's a protein day... eggs, bacon and a smile ♡

This girl next door with a twist and a flair would love to love someone who will love her back equally as much...let's go have some fun, do cartwheels and laugh through life together ♡
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am fervently seeking the worlds best selfie skills.

Thinking ups ways to make my dream adventure a reality.

Looking for you...

Also, I am trying to get it started, for real!! I love my work, my family, the outdoors, travel, etc...still I am wondering where the guy is that is ever so right for me? When he shows up on the scene, then I think the answer to this question will be obvious. (No I am not saying a man will complete me. I am complete.) I just know that HE will have something amazing to add to the mix!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to say, I am a woman that is great at many things, yet hasn't perfected any of them! But the important thing is, I never give up :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make people feel comfortable. I am my very own welcoming committee 0:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My reading habits tend to lean toward something helpful for my life such as "self-improvement", cooking, interior design, travel.....and def a good Cragger book, gotta know of the best rocks to climb!

Music varies. Since I am a professional organizer, here's my list :)

Wilderness, rock climbing & my hammock tunes:
G. Love and Special Sauce
Donavan Frankereiter
Ben Harper
Jack Johnson
Sublime
Cake
And so on..,

My house and a Mediterranean Cozy Platter:
Erick Hutchinson
Amy Winehouse
Madeleine Payroux
James Morrison
Harry Connick Jr
Gavin DeGraw
And so on...

My jamming in the car looking silly bit:
Phoenix
The Strokes
Spoon
Electra
Lenny Kravitz
And so on...

Foodie here. Trying it all!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Quite interesting how
my priorities have changed. Many things I'm unable to be without, these are just a few. In no particular order.
*My Children, Family and real Friends.
*The Great Outdoors.
*Optimism.
*My Fika! (Swedish for coffee).
*Dreams, desires, ambition.
*Sunshine....it makes my heart smile!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How do I stop thinking!!!! :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing about me is typical, well almost nothing :) I was recently told that I am the exception and not the rule.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Seriously...?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Are you a charming fellow with a fab sense of humor that enjoys being considered and thinks it is a good thing to consider others too? Well, if so, then messaging me would be a fantastic place to start!