The Don't List:
I don't want to have to ask if you are still married or in a relationship. If you are, know there is zero possibility of us happening.
I don't want a smoker. I lead a very healthy lifestyle. Trying to hide that you smoke to a nonsmoker is a losing battle.
I don't want someone who has his priorities out of line. Please be prepared to keep your "A" game on for longer than a month or so.
I am a Christian. I do not want my faith to be made a joke of. I won't do that to you. I respect you, you respect me.
I don't want to have our entire free time be spent sitting around. I love life and I'm full of energy. I need a man who is excited to explore life with me. Relaxing should happen, it shouldn't out weigh activity.
I am sure there will be more to add to this don't list. For now, I believe you will get the point. Let me in closing do the best I can to cover who I am.
I am a hard working, optimistic, hopeless romantic woman who desires to find a man that I can admire, desire and respect. He will cherish, adore and desire me. I am affectionate and passionate. My man will know I am into him.
I am a stellar communicator who wears her heart on her sleeves. Sure it makes me vulnerable. I happen to be a risk taker, I can only be me. Being anyone else just won't do. A man will never question if we are ON. I will tell him. A man will never wonder if I want him to call me, text me, kiss me...I will just say so. Seriously guys, I am here to take the guess work out for you. I am all grown up and I'm capable of expressing to you what I need, want, desire. No guessing necessary.
I'd like for you to lead us, be the majority decision maker. I only ask you to consider me when making decisions.
My friends call me appropriately assertive. I am not wishy washy nor the boss of the whole wide world.
Whilst having fun is something I do daily, that doesn't mean it has to involve alcohol. I went for 12+ years without it just because. I could go with or without it moving forward.
I lead an active lifestyle. I want you to as well. I backpack miles upon miles. I sleep in tents with critters and dirt all around me...and I ♡ it!! No sissy :)
I rock climb, kayak through rapids and scramble through things most women wouldn't even entertain in their worst of nightmares.
I am very nurturing. I have my own business that turns mountains into molehills for others. I am an excellent multi-tasker. I make my bed daily and prefer to not leave dirty dishes in the sink over night.
I have teenagers, not babes so I do have free time to see you.
I am adventurous and enjoy doing new things, in new places, with new people. I am capable of being your great friend if we determine we aren't dating material.
I am low maintenance, the simplier the better. I am not a fancy chic. I have no debt. If I don't have a dollar, I don't spend 1. I am minimalistic. I love quality time more than all the expensive gifts you could give me. I enjoy letting you know I am thinking of you by text, call, note in your lunchbox.
I love to cook and I am the creative type in the kitchen. I would love to prepare a delicious meal for you or homemade waffles with yogurt, granola and fruit for breakfast. If it's a protein day... eggs, bacon and a smile ♡
This girl next door with a twist and a flair would love to love someone who will love her back equally as much...let's go have some fun, do cartwheels and laugh through life together ♡