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djcaliban

39 / M / bisexual / Available

San Francisco, California

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Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
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Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
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Sign
Aries and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am yellow, black, and rectangular.

My Self-Summary

Sandpaper with chocolate mousse inside.
Aries sun, Scorpio moon, Sagittarius rising.
President of the Bavarian Illuminati Motorcycle Cabal.

And some interests... creative arts collectives, cars, boats, motorcycles, bunny rabbits, SCUBA, flying, introductions: experimental social chemistry, Lambretta scooters, futile causes, WRC, rally-raid, motoGP, Hundertwasser, lightning, macintosh computers, mcintosh audio, exploration both inside and out, PLURF, good tools, creating systems, composing music (film, dance, etc), performance, improvisation, polyamory-sex-orgasm-hedonism, throwing parties, the netherlands, sparing the lives of spiders, theatre tech, wikipedia, treating my (ahem) glaucoma, and a baby's arm holding an apple.

"Every night and ever morn, some to misery are born. Every morn and every night, some are born to sweet delight"

'Tis an ill wind that blows no minds.

What I’m doing with my life

i have a degree in theatre arts tech and work theatre gigs as a technical director. most of my experience is in lights, sound, and rigging.

i'm also licensed as a contractor to wire up houses for audio, video, phones, networks and more. this is how most of my work time is spent and why i have a new, sharp-yet-creepy white work van.

really, though, that's mostly work. hooray for working for myself, but sometimes my boss can be a real jerk. and life isn't work.

i'm raising a daughter and i never thought i'd fall in love EVERY DAY but now i do. i've lived in the same house in SF for 17 years and while that's merely living, it has definitely become what i am doing with my life since i've spent half my life here. i travel like mad and go abroad every chance i get.

I’m really good at

fooling gravity, playing drums, disc golf, skiing, connecting people, speaking before i think.

The first things people usually notice about me

sideburns, pretty much. and light, steel blue eyes. and the fact that i've started speaking to them apparently with no obvious reason.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

drum & bass/dubstep/breaks/downtempo/ambient/house, dancehall, Sufjan Stephens, Low, The American Analog Set, The Arcade Fire, Velvet Underground, Mogwai, The Oohlas, Quasi, Godspeed You Black Emperor, Stars, Blonde Redhead, Boards of Canada, Broken Social Scene, Mates of State, Spacemen 3, Sonic Boom, Stereolab, +/-, Failure, The Fucking Champs, Steve Reich, Philip Glass, Terry Riley, La Monte Young, Stars of the Lid, www.somaFM.com, Sonic Youth, Sigur Ros, Jim Kweskin Jug Band, my bloody valentine, A Certain Ratio, New Order, Big Black, Swans, Durutti Column, NED, Luke Vibert, Herbie Mann, Rashaan Roland Kirk, Mongo Santamaria, any other jazz with flute, Coltrane, Art Blakey... this list could go on and on and on.

~~ on radio: Joe Frank, Harry Shearer (Le Show), NPR all day, Says You, This American Life ~~ TV: Cowboy Bebop, Weeds (duh), Samurai Champloo, Weeds, Top Gear, Big Love, Deadwood, MotoGP, Invader Zim, WRC, Paris-Dakar, Twin Peaks, Match Game, Frontline, Connections, Firefly, Babylon 5, Robot Chicken, Morel Orel, Drawn Together, Futurama (as John says, it's Matt Groening's /Finnegan's Wake/)

City of Lost Children, Amelie, A Very Long Engagement, Monsters Inc, Brazil, Fifth Element, old Deanna Durbin movies, Repo Man, Hudsucker Proxy, 24 Hour Party People, Groove, Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension, Real Genius

Equus, A Scanner Darkly, Anathem, David Sedaris, The Baroque Cycle (Quicksilver et al), The Virgin Suicides, Here Beneath Low Flying Planes, Cometbus, The Ethical Slut, Parable of the Sower, Cryptonomicon, Diamond Age, www.e-sheep.com, Richard Brautigan - oh how can anyone not love Brautigan!, Asimov's Foundation & Robots, Hogg, Et tu Babe?, Valencia, semiotext[e] SF, My Secret Garden (not THE Secret Garden, big difference)

The six things I could never do without

my daughter
a motorcycle
musical instruments
my passport
a cat
sex

I spend a lot of time thinking about

creative projects - what to build next. drum beats. travel. sex. being underwater.

On a typical Friday night I am

in the music studio, blowing off steam and flowing creative juices. mostly at the moment ripping DATs and other media from the last 30 years of my life for digital archiving. my, doesn't that sound *interesting*? some weirdo working alone with audio gear in a loft in some old warehouse? i guess not. but i adore it there. sometimes i bring my cats.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i have a pair of webbed toes on each foot

You should message me if

i messaged you first

you like nixie tubes, or even know what they are.

you understand what my "im ***, ***, and ***" means.

you're a perv. we all need to stick together...

you know what polyamory is

you play (a) musical instrument(s) and seek collaboration, even if just for a short session of senseless noise

you want to be in a marching band

you have a thing for guys in tool belts