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42 Santa Barbara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 22
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Somewhat), Indonesian (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First impressions are pretty important so I will be a team player and try to take this seriously. I have a wide variety of interests and have been fortunate enough to actively pursue them. I try to temper a tangible degree of pessimism with an internal drive to save the environment and make the world a better place. I spend time on introspection, learning and evolving through personal growth. Without trying to be funny, I am told I have a good sense of humor and enjoy making people laugh. I see life as a string of Haiku. I have put my life in danger to find a pretty rock on the ground for my collection. I volunteer for Surfrider. I have power tools for home repair but can also cook, sew, mop and vacuum. I am wondering what you are thinking, pretending I am psychic and getting it all wrong.

I am interested in someone with a personality based on experience beyond pop culture. Someone intelligent and quick-witted with a broader life perspective. Someone with emotional maturity, good communication and conflict resolution skills. Someone interested in personal growth and who is always learning by desire.

OK. I'm not trying to be arrogant, condescending or aloof; I deleted my entire profile and "simplified" things because I just wanted to mix things up. Did I do ok? Not according to the "Style Guide"!

Haiku; 3 lines
5,7,5 syllables, respectively.

Chase knowledge and aesthetics
Unending journey
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Like water coursing
Through worn stones and fallen trees
Seeking many paths.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My super powers
Of laughter, insight and joy
Always evolving.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hazel eyes as
They trace your body and mind
Smiling at your words.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My brain hungers for
challenge, humor and music
Of many flavors.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Material toys
Are fleeting, yet beauty and
Nature are timeless.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thoughts run far and deep;
Joy, struggle, intrigue- courage...
And your warm hand.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing or something,
Opportunity is not
Bound by calendars.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My heart has many
Protective layers, but can rise
Like magma beneath.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Awareness, humor
Compassion and inner joy
Are your fetishes.

This is what I am looking for in a woman: playful, athletic, motivated, sense of humor, healthy eater, aesthetic appreciation, intelligent, curious, thin, music appreciation, GGG, culinary art skills, enjoys camping, low maintenance, down to earth, emotionally mature, philosophical depth, non-commercial, interested in ocean activities, hiking, biking, equality in a relationship, extrovert, enthusiastic, poetic, ironic, adventurous, confident, reasonably high self-esteem and friendly. If we have a few of these things in common, beautiful music should follow! ;-) Oh, and I have a very narrow chimney: