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djij

40 / F / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 5:23am
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
A kind and gentle woman from the true North, Strong and Free. Who knows how to stoke a fire and melt the ice when she needs to.

I believe in creativity as the essence of life. We are all born under different circumstances, some with more apparent advantage than others. What we each have is the opportunity to create something unique from the ingredients of our desires, our circumstances and our talents – to enhance the beauty and goodness in the world. This how I try to guide my actions.
What I’m doing with my life
I have been extremely lucky to have had so many opportunities to study wonderful things, practice as an architect, travel to exotic places, paint, photograph, sculpt, build, lecture, learn, teach, write, volunteer, swim, sail, ski, and enjoy many other luxuries. I truly appreciate all that life has provided me thus far.
I’m really good at
Knowing the right thing to do. Being in tune with others. Telling stories. Teaching and learning. Being creative. LEGO. Laughing. Asking questions and listening. Improvising in the kitchen. Kneading bread and making sculpture. Dreaming. Levitating unintentionally.
The first things people usually notice about me
My dark eyes, my smile, my black hair, and my laugh if you happen not to be looking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Le Petit Prince, Einstein’s Dreams, Beautiful Losers, Everything is Illuminated, Crime and Punishment, The Idiot, Walden, anything by Dr. Seuss, Kundera, Anais Nin, Hermann Hesse, anything on Eastern Religion, Science, Philosophy, Art and Architecture.

Movies: Barry Lyndon and most Kubrick, Le Fabuleux Destin d’Amelie Poulain, Lawrence of Arabia, Casablanca, Underground, Fight Club, Bananas and other select Woody, The Barbarian Invasions. Lots of documentaries.

Music: Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Beethoven, Celia Cruz, Daft Punk, anything Funk, Glenn Gould, Herbie Hancock, Krishna Das, Michael Jackson, Larry Harlow, Rufus Wainright, Serge Gainsbourg, Ramasutra, Goran Bregovic.

Food: EN Japanese Brasserie, Pink Lady apples, my homemade Chai, Blueberry Lemonade with a dash of Cayenne, Roasted Pumpkin Seeds, Bhel Puri, Dark Chocolate Mousse.
The six things I could never do without
Trees (said the Lorax.)
My dear friends and family.
Some time to free float.
Motion with Rest.
A lovely place to come home to.
A Few Good Men (friends and family included)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Thinking, feeling and being are not separate experiences for me.

That said...
Life. How time could slow down so that I could actually think more. How I can be better or make things better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something that makes me feel good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love construction sites and being in high places - at the top of an unfinished skyscraper is penultimate. One day, I hope to learn to fly.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are a positive person leading a healthy lifestyle. You try to do good and be good – but are just a little bit naughty. You have the curiosity of a boy, the desire of a young man, and the wisdom of an elder.