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33 M Jersey City, NJ

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Hungarian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a software engineer and a finance geek.

Originally from Eastern Europe, I've arrived in the US in May 2013. I'm ethnically German/Jewish/Hungarian, and love Jewish traditions, even though I'm not a religious Jew.

I'm atypical sexually and gender-wise, and identify as genderqueer. That means two things: One, I have feminine tendencies that I am totally not ashamed of, nor am I trying to hide or change. Two, I do believe that gender roles should be negotiated between two people in a relationship.

Also, I'm a type N in the sex style test:
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a mid-level technical decisionmaker at a financial data/software firm. Right off Wall Street none the less!

I'm a work in progress, by all means. After spending approximately 5 years on becoming a professional by wide society standards (a success btw, I got transferred out to New York after all, and am in a highly responsible technical job), now it's time to become a success on my own terms. Think Timothy Ferriss' "4 hour workweek" - if you've read it, and were inspired by it, that's a huge plus.

There's a lot in my background I'm working to get back to. Like lucid dreaming and meditation, writing, lots of callisthenics and serious cycling practice, and have recently switched to a primal / paleo lifestyle. I was kind of paleo before I knew paleo existed, and I felt absolutely awesome around that time... And practicing on the piano, learning to play the bloody recorder properly, and getting down to songwriting practice.

Also, I think it's time to start laying the foundations for a life after the 9-to-5 rat race. I still have a year I pledged to my company, and also the fact that when I leave my job, I'll have to leave the country.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well... When there is too much of something, it's hard to gather examples.

Here's a list of newspapers and magazines I'm subscribed to (digitally), it gives a good overview of me I think: Financial Times, Wall Street Journal, Wired, GQ, Rolling Stone, Dazed and Confused

For books, I love the novels of William Gibson, got exhilarated and cried on Raw Shark Texts, I absolutely love folktales and legends in unadulterated form, read most of Poe and all of Lovecraft as a teenager, have a slight snobby disdain for Pratchett and Douglas Adams (nothing too serious though), I got captivated by Sorokin's Ice, but nowadays a fair share of the reading I do is of the learning / techincal sort... :)

If you also see some faint line of connection between Raw Shark Texts, Mateusz Skutnik's Submachine, FEZ (the game), Bryan Lee'O Malley's Scott Pilgrim (the comic book not the movie) and Lost at Sea, then I guess we should talk. :P

I rarely watch TV, like absurd cartoons and traditional mystery dramas like Poirot the most, but am quite open to new things. :)
As cartoons go, I'm quite picky. I like weird, arty stuff like Adventure Time or Samurai Jack, and messed up Japanese insanity like Gintama. I HATE Simpsons-knockoff "ironic socially critical cartoons" like American Dad or Bob's Burgers with a burning passion.
The six things I could never do without
Human affection. (Being touched, really...)
A handheld shower.
View of the sky.
Thinking about deep stuff.
My family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about to create something that will make people's life better. Also what that something should be.
...just how hypocritical people can be, regardless of political orientation.
...why old Star Trek episodes vary so much in their quality of writing. Some are ingenious, some are ludicrous... we could fix society and commerce, and reach a solution of human freedom, sustainability and peace.
...what kind of office culture I want to create in the startup I'll kick off a few years into the future.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to be a goth / metalhead when I was 20, and I was initiated into a Wiccan coven at the same time.
I have a very emotional and cheesy agenda about using technology to bring people together.
Also, Bill Gates is my hero, and I hope one day I can come close to doing as much good for the world as he's doing. (I think this says a LOT about my political / social views.)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
I'm looking for the most important person in my life. If I meet some awesome loose acquaintances in the process, all the better of course.

If you read, and could relate to what I'm doing with my life, please do message me. ;) If you want to hack, 3d print, build and cycle your way into the future, I could really use someone to share my path. Think posting a training log on facebook, baking protein cookies, coming up with ways to improve our business, going to real estate or stockmarket seminars together, and having a great time until we die or grow bored of each other.

If you'd come live in Germany with me. ;) (Or have an idea for a viable alternative.) If you want to live in many places for a few years at a time.

If you want to come to flight school with me and get a pilot's license.

If you're just as scared as I am of becoming a regular, boring person with a job, a house, two kids and a dog. I don't want that. I do want kids, maybe dogs and cats, possibly several houses around the world, but none of the boring family sitcom stuff that comes with it.