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djrayray

35 Vancouver, WA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:59am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.79m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Mid-30s sound professional. I don't drive the best of cars, I don't keep up on current fashion, but I have a killer sound system. :D

If I check out your profile, and you "selectively" or "Rarely" respond to messages, I probably won't message you first. Blow to the ego and such, ya know? :) So if you're looking for a relationship, send me a message!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working for myself. It's a lot of work, it stresses me out at times (when I am sitting here with Excel, trying to figure out how much money I need next month to pay the bills....), but I love what I am doing with my life.

Oh, what am I doing? I'm running a professional sound system provider and Mobile DJ service. We do all sizes of shows, from 20 people, to 5,000. I own several sound systems, the largest of which is a concert grade touring line array. Hellishly expensive, and I'm leasing it...

So I work from home. No real "office hours," which means I can be answering emails and sending quotes at 5 in the morning or eleven at night. I also have been doing eBay sales of professional wired and wireless microphones and accessories. I do not make a huge amount of money from that still, but it's growing!

Because we're a regional sound company, I can be in Seattle one week, eastern Washington the next week, and throw in a quick rental at the OCC in between! I drive a lot, so if you like to travel in the area, there can be a seat in the car for you. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
• Navigating. If I go somewhere, I can usually find my way back there again in the future without being told how to do it again.
• Cooking. I can follow directions in a cook book, and can explore creative options as well! I bake my own bread.
• DJing. Woo hoo!
• Logistics. Being a business owner, it's important for me to manage what's going on. I can take a pile of tasks, and determine the best way to get everything done.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
mehhhh. My life doesn't revolve around television or YouTube or anything like that.

In the realm of "old school" shit, for TV, I enjoy, and own on DVD:
- Star Trek
- The West Wing
- Weeds
- Malcolm in the Middle
- Home Improvement
- Saved By The Bell
- Will & Grace
- The A-Team
- The Simpsons
- M*A*S*H
- Futurama
- Queer as Folk
... and a few others that I only have one season of or whatever
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
....... I am not a materialistic guy. I don't buy new clothes every month. My car is 17 years old. (No payments for the win!) I'm OK going camping for three days without a phone. [Actually, I broke my phone in February, moved the SIM card into a laptop for texting, moved the business number to go to my home phone, and haven't looked back.]

So the things on this list won't be physical things, probably.

- My hearing. And eyesight. I run sound for a living; I need to be able to hear.
- Knowledge. I love knowing things, and learning new things. I will probably geek out on you, talking about something I know about, on our first date.
- The ability to learn new things. Again, love to do this.
- OK, screw it, a few real things. My house, since it's the roof over my head.
- My hot tub, cos it's just awesome. :D
- My business, since it pays for my worldwide jet-setting playboy lifestyle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am ready to "get married" and settle down with someone special. So, I think about where we are going to meet!

Now I am also wondering.... where the "most private thing I am willing to admit?" field went on here. It used to be here. I first created this profile back in like 2005. (haha! Why hasn't it worked for me?? lol.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably working. A gig. Getting ready for a weekend gig. Recovering from the Thursday night gig. I don't go out much anymore, as my circle of friends has shrunk over the years. I prefer to save money by drinking at home. lol. So you should join me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are also ready for a stable, committed relationship with a wonderful, caring, (somewhat) successful guy here in Vancouver, WA.

At the same time, I would like to expand my circle of good friends here in the Portland/Vancouver area.