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djtoms48

37 Mountain View, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:15am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.74m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~ Dr. Seuss

Friends would describe me as loyal and caring, wanting to do right by people, and intellectually curious. I try to keep up with and enjoy discussing current politics and economics issues.
What I’m doing with my life
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I was born and raised in the Bay Area, went to San Diego for undergrad, finished law school at Santa Clara University...passed the bar exam, worked in SF at a litigation firm, two year stint at a Mt View tech company learning to better analyze, clean, and sample data, and now at a Palo Alto firm doing the same. I work in the intersection of technology and legal discovery.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying the moment. I'm a single digit handicap in golf, but I've been playing since high school. I'm not as good at giving lessons, but I try to help friends out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am quick to laugh and smile. I am a little ambidextrous and tend to do things left or right handed depending on the amount of motor skill involved. I tend to be a little shy with new people, but once I get to know you, I open up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love most food, but am always partial to good sushi, a nice thin NY style or Chicago deep dish pizza, a nicely seasoned rare steak, a flavorful bowl of ramen, or fresh summertime caprese salad with heirloom tomatoes. I love the smell and taste of a fresh cup of coffee. I have a weakness for dark chocolate. Ok, there is also a slight weakness for portuguese sausage, rice, eggs, loco moco, and spam musubis. After all of that, I think I need to hit the gym.

I enjoy a crisp IPA on a hot summer evening/day, and I won't refuse a gin and tonic. I enjoy drinking wine, and worked in the beer and wine department at Berkeley Bowl for a few months. But I could never really taste all the flavors that the vendors would describe. I can only really tell you what I enjoy and what I don't care for. I don't get the Asian blush when I drink.

The last few books I read were Family of Secrets and Imperial Life in The Emerald City. I'm catching up, but I'm a little behind in my subscriptions to the New Yorker and Vanity Fair, and there are a few books on Excel that I need to read for work. I enjoy articles by Matt Taibbi from Rolling Stone, Robert Reich, and blogs on new gadgets or gear. Most recently my reads have been keeping up on technology, legal blogs and politics.

Recent movies that I've enjoyed have been Gravity, Dallas Buyers Club, and Saving Mr. Banks. But my favorites cover the spectrum of dramas to comedies to action films, including A River Runs Through It, American President, My Cousin Vinny, Back to the Future, Fifth Element, Snatch, the Bourne series, the Hangover, to things like Iron Man, the Matrix, and 300. I have to admit though, I don't particularly like horror movies. I only watch the occasional sporting events or Suits on television, though I miss MSNBC.

As far as taste in music, it is an eclectic mix of hip hop, R&B, 80's, classic rock, house, pop, rap, and island 98.5 with iokopo, common kings, fiji and j boog thrown in to mellow things out. I also enjoy catching a musical here and there.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family and friends
intellectual curiosity
nature
laughter
laptop
new challenges
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
legal privilege issues, my golf swing, the next book to read, politics and economics
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not stuck at work trying to meet a deadline, I'm out with friends for dinner or drinks after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Remember Hitch? Sadly, I dance like Hitch and not like Albert.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're secure enough to be single, but choose a relationship because its something you want, not something you need. This is of course reciprocal. Hopefully we won't have any staring matches and we'll go from there. Bonus points if you enjoy golf or wants to learn.