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39 M Albuquerque, NM

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary

I love women. I cherish them for everything they are. No amount of me does not cherish the female sex, though statements on my profile may seems to deem otherwise.

I am broken. I’ve never been able to flirt. In any way. I love women but cannot tell them how I feel. I place myself out there, to try to let you know who I am. I can only hope you care enough to care.

If I could say “yes”, I would. I can’t. Say yes for me?

What I’m doing with my life
I'm finally finishing up my BA. I would play guitar frequently, if I had one, and would enjoy taking photographs if it were not true that I don't have a camera except for my cell phone. Finally, I'd love to get back into theater. As might be obvious, I am dreadfully poor.
I’m really good at
A lot of stuff. Writing, photography, acting, technical theater, thinking, playing bass; guitar; keyboards; and percussion, spirituality, and tooting the horn that is mine. :-> Actually, I don't think of myself as being conceited. I'm just good at a lot of stuff.

If you want to check out my music, you can find my stuff here:
The first things people usually notice about me
I wear black all the time without exception. Except for RHCP performances.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "Of Human Bondage", "Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy", "Neuromancer", Russian literature.
Movies: "Dead Poet's Society", "Seven", "Wings of Desire".
Music: Gothic/Industrial/Darkwave, "Alternative" from the early '90s, Folk.
Food: I don't much like food. I hate having to eat. That having been said: steak, French pastries, potatoes, cheese, and green chili.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee, garlic, MJ, a computer, a musical instrument (don't have a working one. Life is shit.), smokes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The purpose and origin of life. The true nature of God.

With no logical place to put this:

I wish I could say yes,
To give you a notion
That I would say Yes,
to any proclamation.

Call me shy.
If you will.
I am not.
Just stilted.

I miss something,
But I plead for a chance.
If only I could speak.
On a typical Friday night I am
...wishing I was elsewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've always wanted to be a woman. That's pretty private. And I haven't been laid in more than 10 years. One might beget the other.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like to. :-) After reading that I wish I were a woman, any woman willing to contact me would be cool.