Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
As a kid I decided that having an interesting life took precedence
over conformity, and that's proved to be a good decision to live
Caring for family & friends, caring for the environment, social
justice/anti-oppression causes, are things I hold dear.
I like to work hard, play hard.
Generally adventurous about life - except food. Sorry, kind of
boring there. Though I once ate a deep-fried caterpillar in
Thailand... (it was like a french fry)
Enjoy being physically active, try to take care of my body (and
mind and heart).
Family is important to me and I love mine. Culture is important to
me and I love mine (Chinese, Japanese, American) - and I respect
that of others.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making multimedia performance art, directing/editing humorous
environmentally-themed music videos, traveling the world (esp.
Asia) doing various art projects.
New performance about my late-mother's life story and about Asian
American single motherhood (2013). Here's a sample:
Example of an art project I did in Korea (2011):
Latest music video (2012):
I also teach peer counseling classes (listening skills; assisting
people to move through emotional issues).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to stories, telling stories, most sports that involve a
ball esp. baseball, video editing, fixing mechanical things,
inventing things, cooking what I cook well, eating my own cooking,
playing with kids. Playing. Spelling. Washing dishes. Vacuuming.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My paradoxical combination of serious intellectual depth and stupid
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dreams From My Father, Angela's Ashes, The Right Stuff,
Bruce Lee: Artist of Life, Black Elk Speaks, Origins, You Gotta
Have Wa, The Last Man on The Moon, white pages of the phone book. I
read a lot of non-fiction, esp. history. Current reading: "The
Golden Age of the Chinese Bourgeoisie, 1911-1937". It's very hard
to remember how to spell "bourgeoisie"...
Movies: American Hustle; August Osage County; Nebraska; Gravity;
Dallas Buyers Club; Saving Mr. Banks; The Book Thief. OLDER -
Manzanar Fishing Club; The Help; American Beauty; Field of Dreams;
October Sky; Apollo 13; Forrest Gump; Apocalypse Now; just about
anything by Pixar.
TV: Don't watch much, but love The Daily Show. Jon Stewart is my
current cultural hero. Castle, and not just cuz they occasionally
Music: Pat Metheny Group, Miles Davis, X, Beatles, Prince, Alan
Hovanhess, Bob Marley, Stevie Wonder, Brian Eno, Kymistry, Quetzal,
Corrinne May, too many more...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, a guitar, baseball glove & bat (counts as
one), MacBook, Sequoia Natl Park.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to create exciting, fun, powerful art.
How to help people (and myself) move through the things that get in
the way of living more freely and fully.
How to get rid of some of the stuff cramming my studio.
What is that weird noise outside at 4AM?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on some creative project. But I can be persuaded to do
something else, especially if it involves amusement park rides, ice
cream, or being in nature.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cried during "Toy Story" when Buzz Lightyear realized he was just
a toy. :D
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