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dkbb12

59 M Santa Monica, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:12pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
As a kid I decided that having an interesting life took precedence over conformity, and that's proved to be a good decision to live by.

Caring for family & friends, caring for the environment, social justice/anti-oppression causes, are things I hold dear.

I like to have fun and I like to work hard.

I am generally adventurous about life - except food. Sorry, kind of boring there. Though I once ate a deep-fried caterpillar in Thailand... (it was like a french fry)

Enjoy being physically active, try to take care of my body (and mind and heart).

Family is important to me and I love mine. Culture is important to me and I love mine (Chinese, Japanese, American) - and I respect that of others.
What I’m doing with my life
Making multimedia performance art, directing/editing humorous environmentally-themed music videos, traveling the world (esp. Asia) doing various art projects.

Example of an art project I did in Korea (2011):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Tw2b41IfRg

Latest music video (2012):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3EtzCKLCk7E&feature=youtu.be

New performance about my late-mother's life story and about Asian American single motherhood (2013). Here's a sample:
http://youtu.be/B_jEWPiFpNM

I also teach peer counseling classes (listening skills; assisting people to move through emotional issues).
I’m really good at
Listening to stories, telling stories, most sports that involve a ball esp. baseball, video editing, fixing mechanical things, inventing things, cooking what I cook well, eating my own cooking, playing with kids. Playing. Spelling. Washing dishes. Vacuuming.
The first things people usually notice about me
My paradoxical combination of serious intellectual depth and stupid humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This part feels tedious. Sorry, will try a few...

Books: Dreams From My Father, Angela's Ashes, The Right Stuff, Bruce Lee: Artist of Life, Black Elk Speaks, Origins, You Gotta Have Wa, The Last Man on The Moon, white pages of the phone book. I read a lot of non-fiction, esp. history. Currently re-reading "Embracing Defeat", about Japan during the post-WWII U.S. Occupation.

Movies: NEW - American Hustle; August Osage County; Nebraska; Gravity; Dallas Buyers Club; Saving Mr. Banks; The Book Thief; OLDER - Manzanar Fishing Club; The Help; American Beauty; Field of Dreams; October Sky; Apollo 13; Forrest Gump; Apocalypse Now; just about anything by Pixar.

TV: Don't watch much, but love The Daily Show. Jon Stewart is my current cultural hero. Castle, and not just cuz they occasionally employ me...

Music: Pat Metheny Group, Miles Davis, X, Beatles, Prince, Alan Hovanhess, Bob Marley, Stevie Wonder, Brian Eno, Kymistry, Quetzal, Corrinne May, too many more...
The six things I could never do without
Family, friends, a guitar, baseball glove & bat (counts as one), MacBook, Sequoia Natl Park.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to create exciting, fun, powerful art.
How to help people (and myself) move through the things that get in the way of living more freely and fully.
How to get rid of some of the stuff cramming my studio.
What is that weird noise outside at 4AM?
On a typical Friday night I am
Working on some creative project. But I can be persuaded to do something else, especially if it involves amusement park rides, ice cream, or being in nature.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Cried during "Toy Story" when Buzz Lightyear realized he was just a toy. :D
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You appreciate the unconventional and are curious to find out more