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dkhofer

38 M Cambridge, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:05am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly), LISP (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've taken the Myers-Briggs test multiple times, and the only thing the results agree on is that I'm definitely an I and not an E. So I'm not sure it's a useful test, but I do find it fun to spend lots of time overthinking it.

In person, I'm pretty easygoing. I like to spend a lot of free time reading, both on current events and random books that get recommended to me, and sometimes down wikipedia rabbit holes. I'd say I'm fairly idealistic, but flexible when facts contradict my opinion.

I grew up in a small rural town in New York State, but I've lived in small or large cities since college, and I can't picture going back to the country, but there are things about it that I miss, like the stillness and stars at night, the smells of fresh cut grass and hay, and the sound of birds making their music. But cities just have way too much going on for me to stay away.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the tech industry as a software engineer. The work is hard but interesting, and in general I like it. I've been with a company for a few years and have seen it grow a lot, which has been stressful, interesting, and satisfying.

Apart from work, my main hobby is square dancing, which may sound hokey, but is actually quite complex and interesting. Dancing to me is partly a celebration of the fact that we are anything at all, but at the higher levels, square dancing adds a thinking component that I also enjoy.
I’m really good at
Computer stuff and other things requiring abstract thought.

Listening. Explaining things.

Taking a step back and thinking about why something happened.

Judging how much I'll like a movie based on the preview.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I mostly read nerd stuff like essays on software development and also biotech, but I enjoyed the Hunger Games and also the Mistborn trilogy by Brandon Sanderson. I'm currently reading "How Buildings Learn" by Stewart Brand and "The Joy of Coffee" by Corby Kummer, which are both really interesting.

Movies: I watched a bunch in the late 90's so there's kind of a bias there, but: Fight Club, The Big Lebowski, Spirited Away, The Bourne trilogy, anything by Joss Whedon, Blue/White/Red by Kieslowski, After Hours, How To Train Your Dragon, The Thin Red Line.

TV shows: 30 Rock, The Wire, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Firefly.

The Last Airbender is a kids cartoon with a surprising amount of depth. It deals with topics like genocide, reluctance to embrace one's destiny, pride, balance, growing up in a country that is dominating the world and discovering what life is like outside that country, struggling against your upbringing to decide the best way to live your own life, whether it's ethical to steal from pirates, and many other things. I highly recommend it.

Music: Mostly, indie and electronica, stuff that white people like. Lately: Boards of Canada, Wye Oak, Washed Out, Avicii, Bon Iver, Rodrigo y Gabriela ("Tamacun" is awesome!), other random stuff like "Havoc" by Gregory Douglass, "Young Blood" by The Naked and Famous.

Food: Stuff with cheese in it, like pizza, burritos, and grits. Thai food also.
The six things I could never do without
- Coffee
- Sleep
- Beer
- My laptop, which was created by a company named after a fruit.
- Friends
- Family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to improve the computer systems that my company runs on (and sometimes the human systems :-)

What life will be like in 10 or 20 years, given that computers are getting exponentially faster, and also sequencing and synthesizing genomes are also getting exponentially faster.

Whatever random web link has most recently caught my attention, like the Mongol sack of Baghdad in 1258.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends and/or coworkers (who are also friends), or chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like certain Coldplay songs.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
I seem like someone you want to get to know better, duh!