To give you a sense of what other people think about me check out a video by the Tri team I used to coach. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEXencU6yUs#t=10m43s
ENTJ Born in Hong Kong (not China and no I don't have an accent... seriously I don't, way to make shit awkward though), I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area and after stints in San Diego, Chicago, Palo Alto and, most recently, San Francisco; I find myself here in Oregon trying something different. I'm a bit of a nerd but pride myself by being pretty well rounded. I'll be the first to admit that I have a big personality; by no means does that mean cocky, swag, or synonyms.
Also, I'm totally okay with getting "chicked", if you're an endurance athlete you know exactly what this means. I am attracted to women with strong personalities and high ambitions. Credit my mother for this.