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32 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If you're a woman who intimidates most men because you are intelligent and cute, we'll get along fine. I'm not promising a relationship or intimacy; however, you are the type I'm looking for friendship and possibly more. Admittedly, we all have our walls up, - the secret is letting those in who are worthwhile.

To give you a sense of what other people think about me check out a video by my Team in Training team- Yes, I believe in volunteering to fight cancer; I lost a friend to cancer when we were 19 and it's a personal battle now.

ENTJ Born in Hong Kong (not China and no I don't have an accent... seriously I don't, way to make shit awkward though), I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area and after stints in San Diego, Chicago, Palo Alto and, most recently, San Francisco; I find myself here in Oregon trying something different. I'm a bit of a nerd but pride myself by being pretty well rounded. I'll be the first to admit that I have a big personality; by no means does that mean cocky, swag, or synonyms.

Also, I'm totally okay with getting "chicked", if you're an endurance athlete you know exactly what this means. I am attracted to women with strong personalities and high ambitions. Credit my mother for this.
What I’m doing with my life
Making the leap! Just moved up (12/27) to the Pacific Northwest to get out of the rat race of San Francisco and "the Valley". I got a job opportunity in the PNW and figured why not?

I love the outdoors, riding bikes, and generally being active. So Oregon is a good fit. Now if only I had friends to do that with...
I’m really good at
Living by the following hip hop lyrics:
"Tomorrow may never come, for you and me life is not promised... I'm not a perfect man, I'm trying to do the best that I can, with what it is I got."

"The greats weren't great, because at birth they could paint; the greats were greats because they paint a lot."

But waaait; I seem like such a preppy dude. Yeah, if you can't appreciate hip hop - we're not gonna get along. But if you're open to it, I'd love to teach you about it!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm the whitest Asian guy you'll ever meet (seriously, you gotta let go of thinking I have an accent). Yes, I'm the token Asian in a group... which means I usually do the ordering at Chinese restaurants and serve as a translator on trips to Hong Kong.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let's keep this short. I like non-fiction, love rom-coms, Top Gear, cooking shows where I get to learn something, everything from Aesop Rock to Yo Yo Ma to Zeppelin (currently in a Lumineers and Macklemore phase), and all sorts of food.

One more thing (since I happen to be watching it right now), Milk is one of my favorite movies of all time. Since (I assume) you are a woman; you should realize that your right to vote and gain equal rights was the same fight that homosexuals face today. Here's a tip, watch Iron Jawed Angels and then watch Milk... your mind will be #blown. Put down the Hobbit for an evening and watch those instead and realize that it's the same fight. If you just scoffed or think I'm some "queer lover" please move onto the bloke with the lifted truck and Tap Out clothing; I prefer clothes from England anyway.
The six things I could never do without
Friends + Family
Food + Booze
KU Basketball
Giants Baseball
My stable of bicycles
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How my actions, or lack thereof, affects others. I am always constantly setting goals in my career and in my sporting life.
On a typical Friday night I am
hmm, depends. If I have a long run or ride the next day, I'll usually cook and get my chores done so I can have an great weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was the chubby theater kid in high school... then when I got to college I turned into a jock. I took tap, jazz, and am quite comfortable with singing in the shower.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Let's keep this simple - You recognize a good thing when you see one; Even though, at first it may be hard to quantify or explain. You're able to trust your gut, not succumb to your friends' influence, and create your own journey.