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33 M Durham, NC

My Details

Last Online
Apr 9
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from med school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Me in a nutshell ... I truly believe in sincerity and treating people as genuinely as I would like to be treated. I'm quietly confident without being arrogant. I like to kill people with my kindess. And chivalry is not dead (I was raised in the South). I get annoyed with stupid stuff (selfishness, inconsiderateness, shameless self-promotion, inappreciativeness, etc. - trying to be better about that). I enjoy cooking (although, I only really cook on special occasions). I am an avid sports fan ... not as obsessive as I once was. I like to be punctual (I believe it shows respect for the other person and his/her time). I enjoy nice things in life. I love good coffee. I enjoy romantic comedies and I LOVE Christmas (even though Love Actually is a tier 2 romantic comedy, the romcom + Christmas combo puts it high on my list of favorite movies). Well, I really just like movies in general. I am a sucker for a good history lesson (if I could be anything else other than what I am now, I'd be a history professor). I love EVERYTHING dark chocolate. I am a good listener and pretty good at giving advice (for those who seek it). I guess I am secretly a romantic even though I don't like to admit it.
I’m really good at
Being a good friend and listening to your problems
The first things people usually notice about me
Ability to make people feel at ease ... hence the nickname "Southern Comfort" given by my friends :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: Freakonomics and Super-Freakonomics, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time, The Five People You Meet in Heaven, Never Let Me Go, Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers, The Da Vinci Code, Complications, Atonement, The Namesake, The Time Traveler's Wife, The Catcher in the Rye, Mystic River, The Rape of Nanking, The Kite Runner, The Corrections

Favorite movies: Godfather I & II, Old School, Fight Club, Shakespeare In Love, Matrix I, The Hangover, Gladiator, Taken, Infernal Affairs/The Departed, Blood Diamond, Slumdog Millionaire, The Social Network, The Shawshank Redemption, (500) Days of Summer, GoodFellas, It's a Wonderful Life, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Schindler's List, Rocky, Saving Private Ryan, Forrest Gump, Pulp Fiction, The Sixth Sense, Crash, True Grit, Shades of Ray, Crazy Stupid Love, The Avengers

Favorite shows: How I Met Your Mother, Scrubs, Happy Endings, Modern Family, White Collar, ESPN (or anything sports related), Glee, The Daily Show, SNL, 30 Rock

Favorite music: OneRepublic, Keane, U2, Beatles, Bruno Mars, The Script, The Decemberists, Elton John, Eric Clapton, Jimmy Buffett, Classical Piano, Usher, Justin Timberlake, Marvin Gaye, Michael Buble, Pete Yorn, The Postal Service, Robin Thicke, Ryan Adams, Swedish House Mafia, The White Panda, Girl Talk
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order ...
1. Family/Friends (companionship)
2. Food
3. Entertainment (Movie/Music)
4. Honesty/Genuineness
5. Humor
6. Goals in life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next 10 years of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmmm ... probably working
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
1. You like what you see
2. You are not a crazy person