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44 M San Ramon, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:58pm
Black, White
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I grew up very differently than most people, but that has helped me to develop a sincere appreciation for the gift of life. I'm the father of two wonderful daughters. I enjoy running and plan to run my fourth and fifth marathons this year. I also love the ocean and was fortunate enough to live in Maui, Hawaii for two years. In addition, I spend my time swimming or weight training at the gym, hiking, riding my mountain bike, fishing, reading; and snorkeling and bodyboarding when I get the opportunity. I have a nursing degree and work as a psychiatric Registered Nurse. I also have a master's degree in Counseling Psychology and a bachelor's degree in Psychology. I am energetic, positive, caring, honest, confident, humorous, responsible, motivated, and adventurous.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working hard, helping people, and hoping to change a few lives along the way. I am raising two very caring, intelligent, athletic, and beautiful daughters. I am also continuing to explore and enjoy the Bay Area and the rest of California. I just moved here a 3.5 years ago.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a father, leading others, facilitating groups, listening, helping others to feel comfortable, and running.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my sense of humor and how easily I get along with others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Goodwill Hunting, Primal Fear, Remember the Titans, The Bourne Identity, The Bourne Supremacy, The Bourne Ultimatum,

Books: Most books about psychology or psychotherapy; Good to Great by Jim Collins; anything by Stephen Covey, Anthony Robbins, or Zig Ziglar; The Long Run by Matt Long; Ultramarathon Man, 50/50, and Run by Dean Karnazes; and Marathon The Ultimate Training Guide by Hal Higdon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My two daughters
My three nephews
The ocean
Continuous personal growth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my two daughters, their activities and sports, and their future. I also spend time being grateful for all that I do have in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
transporting my girls to their social activities and spending time with them if they are staying with me that weekend. Otherwise, I am relaxing at home, eating out, seeing a movie, or enjoying a cold IPA draft beer at a local pub..
You should message me if
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you are active, optimistic, honest, and caring; you like what I've shared so far; and you would like to have a drink, have dinner together, or go for a run or a hike and get to know each other better.