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41 M Albany, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:34pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Decided I needed to update this fully, I may lose some by doing this--But it is all about the journey not the destination. So with that lets begin. Hello, I am not a laid back type of person--I am as dynamic and as diverse as the number of mediums I paint in.

Many people would say these summaries are difficult--I don't find them hard because, I am not selling myself here--I am seeking someone with shared interest, and a passion for the visual arts.

I am pretty versed on a number of topics--and try to read something outside current media offers. I have a number of projects in the works but will always find time to accommodate friends and family if called upon to do so.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bringing my plan together and seeing it through. I want to be able to retire within the next 8 to 10 years...which is a very ambitious undertaking and requires complete commitment to the achievement of set goals. It won't be easy and I may spin out of control--but I need to be financially free and make sure that others can be as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at being a good friend. My natural charm and cheerfulness
makes many around me either very guarded or endearing, doesn't bother me much either way. I have decided long ago you can be cheerful--or miserable
you have a choice even given the nature of your circumstance.

I am also really good at rationalization--also, creative problem solving.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Different people will be aware of different things. There are some qualities which make me appear invisible, while some aspects of my personality stand out. For me, I am never really sure if people see"me"
at all. Most times, I think they may to a greater or lesser extent, see some aspect of theirselves--or quality, or personality that they desire or are repulsed by. Does this make any sense?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Not going to get in to this one--just can't remember all the title--but some have some rather somber covers. One that comes to mind--a book by James Allen--As a man Thinketh.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the number of things I could never do without is a lot broader than 6 things
it is insulting to me to even attempt to limit my choices in such a way--request, declined.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*06/13/2014 edition*I find that a lot of the profiles read like manifestos or affirmations which have little or no constructive use.
Some read like resumes which I ask myself"are they looking for a job--or trying to get an audition?"

The plus side to this is, I have found out exactly who to avoid and why, because the focus is not what they offer--but what they are after--revealing, if you don't her everything when and how she want its--you don't qualify.

*6/22/2014--I found, there are a lot of very attractive women here. When I read their profile, they read like resumes and self involved, not so much what they "offer" more about what they want and looking to get. If that is the point of being here--something is going to missing for a long time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Renewed commitment to achieving my goals--creating on image at a time. Painting a small piece of art--or cleaning up details to a kitchen, bath or room remodel. Appreciating what's "next" in this chapter of my life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once rate a woman with 4 out of 5 stars here--upon notifying her in the course of conversation--she wrote that she didn't like N**** and with that--I rarely rate anyone more than 3...if at all.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you enjoy an exchange of ideals...Take issue with my observations--Have a perspective broader than one not currently recognized or supported by within your circle of peers. Oh, if you like me--just say hello, I don't judge.
*Fair Warning* You visit--I will be responding and if you are will be queried for conversation...just so you know.
One last thing--if you are going to visit at least say"hi" otherwise it's just staking. No trannys--at all.