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dmannhere

42 / M / Straight / Single

Folsom, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:18pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
My parents have been a great model for a happy marriage. They have been married for my entire life plus some :-). Their relationship has taught me a lot about the importance of love, friendship and trust, and I hope to someday have what they have!

Those who know me best would tell you that I am a friendly, fun-loving, honest guy who is a loyal friend. I have an optimistic outlook on life and for me; the glass is always half-full. While I am hard-working and motivated in all that I do, I value the people and relationships in my life above all else. My friends and family mean the world to me and I love spending time with them. I am thankful that I am healthy, happy, and in love with life. I believe that we all need something to do, something to believe in, and someone to love. That someone is the person I seek.

In a relationship, I’m dedicated to my partner. I like understanding and taking care of her needs. I’m a good listener and friend -- affectionate and romantic. I love spoiling my partner: holding doors, picking up the check and sending flowers for no reason. Besides just being good manners, chivalrous gestures are one of the ways I express my affection for people I respect and care about. I believe in looking after each other, because I’ve learned that whatever you put into a relationship is returned ten-fold. My ideal match shares these same core relationship values and would reciprocate them.

In my free time I enjoy a mixture of high-energy pastimes and quieter pursuits. I love the outdoors and I strive to stay fit and active. You might find me hiking, wake boarding, playing racquetball, cycling or dancing the night away. I have a musical side and I love playing the drums. I love to laugh and I am happiest when I am making others smile and laugh too. I love the big adventures of life like international travel, but I also appreciate the simple pleasures of everyday. In a relationship, I savor each moment, from the first cup of coffee in the morning to the last kiss goodnight. With a good companion by your side, even the smallest moments can be magical.

My family a big part of my life and it’s important to me that I find a match who knows how to have fun with big group of loving people. I am the proud father of 3 kids, and while I don’t want any more children, I would gladly welcome a partner with children (or without) in my life.

I'm looking for a confident, bright, active, happy match who enjoys life. I'm interested in a companion who shares some similar interests, and who also has passions of their own that they would like to share with a special friend. I seek the kind of person who takes care of themselves, enjoys working up a good sweat, and doesn't mind getting dirty - yet can dress up and turn heads. I’m not interested in just going on a few dates and having some passing fun; ultimately, I want to meet someone I’m right for and who is right for me, then fall in love. I’m looking for closeness, friendship, romance, affection – all the good stuff that goes along with being in love and being someone’s soul mate. I seek a strong personality, eager to share life’s many choices, and to accept the love and admiration given to her. She is quick to smile and laugh and never sweats the small stuff. I would like a friend and companion -- someone who could be my romantic partner for life. I’d love to build a solid friendship that will grow into something deeper and more committed. I’m here to find the best relationship of my life, for the rest of my life.
I’m not looking for perfection. I know better than that. But I would like to meet the person who is perfect for me. Maybe that’s you! Drop me a line and let’s find out!

If you are ghetto, hooker, or criminal we wont be a good match.

Good luck to all
What I’m doing with my life
I work in Law enforcement on an IT project that improves public safety for the citizens of the state.

I like to ride my bike on the trail, hike, fish, and stay active. When I am not working. I like to unwind by relaxing with friends, BBQ, Wine taste, movies, and snuggling the right woman who makes me happy.
I’m really good at
I am really good at fixing things, cooking and trying to stay healthy and fit.

I am good at my job and love what I do.

Playing the drums!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am clean cut friendly and care about others.

I am conservitive in values, but have a sense of letting go in some situations, so I am more moderate in social arenas.

My sense of humor is sacrcastic, but considerate of others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Left behind series of books were my favorite.

It's complicated and other comedy movies are just downright fun to share with a woman that has a great since of humor.

I love all types of music.
The six things I could never do without
My Kids, Car, Faith, Phone, Bike, Drums, Toothbrush and Soap is a must.

Love them all, need them all
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Starting a business. Meeting the right woman and building a home with my own two hands.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging with friends or visiting with kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
WOW...Not sure about this...lol. Maybe you can ask when we meet...lol
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–41
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You read this far and I put a sense of curiosity or a smile on your face.