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dmiddleton

49 / F / Gay / Single

Paradise Valley, Arizona

Her Details

Last Online
Mar 25
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Casual, easy going but do like the finer things in life. Nothing wrong with a good glass of champagne or a 5 diamond hotel suite. I do also enjoy a good BBQ joint and a cold PBR.

Casual yet slightly (with emphasis on slightly) refined would describe my ideal destination whether it be a new travel location or restaurant.

Casual, without the slight refinement, would describe me. Although I've lived in San Francisco my entire adult life and Scottsdale seems much more casual so maybe I'm just normal.
What I’m doing with my life
Anyway, I've spent most of my life just doing my own thing. Paying attention to work, friends and my sister's family, but not so much trying to find that special someone who I truly love in a romantic way.

I don't know exactly why, at this time in life I'm more focused on dating, but now does seem to be the right time for me. I'm ready now to offer myself in a way I think a relationship demands. Open, honest and trusting (perhaps this has come with my maturity).
I’m really good at
Listening
Making a mess while cooking
Finding good travel deals
Hugging
Driving in big cities (think SF, NYC, London) but only if I'm not talking to someone in the car
Finding humor in the little things
Not taking myself or others too seriously
Goofing around
The first things people usually notice about me
I wear shorts as often as possible. People notice when I have on a pair of pants. The wearing of pants either means something important is going on at work, or it's just too damn cold to wear shorts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a tax consultant so I read pretty heavy things during the day. For pleasure I enjoy a lite mystery.

Love the TV shows Mad Men and Damages.

Love French food because of all the yummy sauces
The six things I could never do without
My niece (a Great Dane) and nephews (18 year old twins with a passion for baseball).
Sunshine
My morning coffee outside
travel
Water
Laughing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Outside of work I try not to do a lot of miscellaneous thinking. I've been told by friends I think too much and should "knock it off". I'm not always successful, but I'm trying. A good balance of thinking/doing is where I hope I'm heading. The whole living in the moment concept.
On a typical Friday night I am
Could be anything depending upon where I am. Fringe theater, symphony, ballet, baseball game, eating dinner at my friend's neighborhood restaurant, local bar, time with my neice and nephews, relaxing on vacation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I do have a brain, but sometimes I have to wonder what it's doing.

There are definitely other more private personal things I could admit to of course, but those are better left for people I know or am getting to know.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think you might have the patience and the desire to take a relationship on at a slower pace, you like watching live baseball whether it be the Giants, or any other team AAA to single A, or you love a great seat at the ballet.

Or if you enjoy San Francisco. I still live there part time.