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38 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:34am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
If my friends were to describe me, they would probably say that I'm funny, witty, caring, polite, patient, open-minded, respectful...and a closet dork. Me, I would say say I'm someone who knows how to make the best out of every situation, who finds joy in the simplest things, who sees the beauty in everything, who never stops dreaming, who likes to lose himself so I can discover new things as I find my way back.

As for my ideal match, I'm looking for someone to share this crazy journey with me, someone who is independent and knows how to find happiness, who is not afraid to be themselves or doesn't feel like they need to be somebody's dream girl, who's confident about herself, who doesn't mind the occassional f-bombs, who laughs with me, not at me, when I suffer from the Asian blush and who just simply enjoys life.

As for this journey, it will be a path of many misdirections and spontaneous adventures. The only thing that we can rely on is each other to be the guide, always moving forward.

I'm not sure where this journey will ultimately take us, but I hope the new experiences and memories that we'll share along the way will lead us both to what we are looking for at the end.

Are you ready to go on this journey with me? If so, I reserved a first class ticket for you.

Note: Please leave your baggage at the gate.
What I’m doing with my life
After spending the past few years focused on building my career, I recently realized I let life passed me by. Life's too short. Anyway, it's time for me to re-prioritize and enjoy what this world has to offer. There are so many places I have yet to visit, so many great people I have yet to meet. And here I am on OKCupid taking that next step, hoping the person I meet here, whether she's the love of my life or just a friend, will join me on this exciting, new adventure.
I’m really good at
- Drawing
- Finding my way back from being lost
- Solving problems
- Making the best out of a bad situation
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people notice about me is my height. I guess it's still rare to find Asian men who are as tall as me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorites: Out by Matsuo Kirino, All She Was Worth by Miyuki Miyabe
Recently Read: The Last Halloween by Jeph Loeb, Habibi by Craig Thompson

Big Bang Theory, HIMYM (need to catch up), Person of Interest, Nikita and Revenge.

I love music! I try to go to concerts as much as I can. I prefer smaller venues so I can be up close to the performer. Currently, I've been listening to Plan B and Rachael Yamagata on repeat.

Japanese, Thai, Spanish/Tapas, Mexican are some of my favs...but I'm open to try anything.
The six things I could never do without
- The love of my family
- Good friends
- Humor
- Art & Music
- The sponeity of life
- Popeye's Fried Chicken...j/k, my imagination and creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about whether or not I lived up to my fullest potential, whether the choices I've made in my life were the right ones and what I need to do to bring continued happiness to my family, my friends and myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
I try to meet up with friends to grab a bite or check out a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On time while hovering over a urinal at work, the button popped off as I was undoing my pants. To avoid embarrassment, I returned to my desk and tried to avoid standing up or moving around. It was hours later before I had a chance to leave the office and walk several blocks to a Walgreens to buy some bobby pins, all-in-the-while I was holding up my pants up by gripping the sides together right above the fly like some kind of perv. The bobby pins...they were a life saver.

What did I learn from all of this? Always wear a belt with slacks or khakis.

PS - Just to confirm, I did finish peeing, pick up the button and WASH MY HANDS before I returned to my desk.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're someone who's not afraid to be themselves.