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44 Roslyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:58pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Has kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a fun-loving, kind hearted, determined gentleman who is looking for my best friend and lover, and someone to share/make beautiful memories with. I have lots to offer and hope to find someone who can bring out the best in me.

I strive to see the best in people and practice what I preach. I am a sensitive man who can express his feelings and desires very well. I am blessed to have two amazing kids that I adore, loving and supportive parents, as well as two sisters who mean very much to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring all what life has to offer, looking for happiness and not just being satisfied, trying to balance work with spending time with my kids and finding that special someone, finding things/people that interest me, and trying to make myself the best all around person I can be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Expressing myself, being sensitive to others, making people feel comfortable, listening, educating, and helping people feel better physically.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, smile, sincerity, and how very inquisitive I can be. I guess I just can't wait to get to know someone special - is that you?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Quote - Living my life these days by this one "Hold the Vision, Trust the Process".....says it all!
Books - unfortunately haven't had much time to read lately, but looking forward to getting into some good books, any recommendations?
Movies - Shawshank Redemption, Braveheart, Top Gun, anything romantic, comedies, sci-fi, action/thriller.
Shows - Big Bang Theory, Two and a Half Men, Friends, Seinfeld, Star Trek, and several others.
Music - Maroon 5, Rascal Flatts, Matchbox 20, Jason Mraz, Brad Paisley, Chris Medina, Blake Shelton, Daughtry, Lonestar, Train, Linkin Park, Sara Bareiles, U2, Sting, Neil Diamond, Frank Sinatra, Yanni, classic rock, top 40, (what can I say, I have a lot of different tastes in music)
Food - Italian, sushi, American, and always willing to try different foods and explore other cuisines.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids
2. Friends and family
3. Romance.....yes, I'm a romantic at heart.
4. Laughter
5. Having fun
6. Being intimate with someone special
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now....what and who the next phase of my life will be like/with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from a long work week and deciding how to have fun for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Knowing it's not always wise to admit something private on an open forum like a dating website, however, feel free to message me and ask me anything.
You should message me if
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You're looking to find someone special, sincere, and looking for all the good things life has to offer.

You're looking for a relationship that's built on honesty, trust, and communication.