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45 M Austin, TX

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Mostly anything
Very often
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"Whoa! That was intense!"
-"Life of a repo man is always intense."
I'm a changing man, like the shifting sands. A big huge plus if you know that song. I'm not on the quest for a perfect mate. If you are, move on. I'm looking to be intrigued, to be excited, and to see what happens. I'm open to possibilities.

Yes, I'm a Jew. Not Jewy enough to be a Jerry Seinfeld Jew. Think Lou Reed, Joey Ramone, The Beastie Boys, Scott Ian, Mick Jones from The Clash. That kind of Jew.
What I’m doing with my life
Nobody can do the shake like I do, nobody can do the shimmy like I do, nobody can do the boogaloo like I do, nobody can do the jerk like I do. Plus points if you knew who did that song.
I’m really good at
All things retro, MCM, and mod. I'm a sponge when it comes to music, design, and architecture. I make awesome drinks, give great hugs, and my brain is overly predisposed to finding needles in haystacks and seeing how things integrate into a big picture.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my terminally mod retro style, my directness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Classic sci-fi. Negative Utopia or Dystopia. Same in movies. I own a TV. I don't use it except for movies or random brain mushing.

Music is very, very important to me. I get along with most people, but to connect, this one's a biggie and I'm going to have more interest in someone who "gets" me on this. I'm a fan of trashy, loud, three chord dance music that's played by white guys doing a bad job of playing black music. In other words, I love rock 'n' roll. Not rock, not hard rock, but rock 'n' roll. My tastes move back and forth between The Sonics and The Cramps to The Stones/Kinks/Who to jangling Rickenbackers to fuzzy Fender Jaguars and Farfisas. I love garage, garage punk, power pop, paisley underground, and some new psych.

I'm a conscious ominovore. I drink soy milk, but love good cheese. I love a good steak or friend chicken, but I want to know where my food is coming from and will not eat meat from factory farms. I have a juicer that I really need to get in the habit of using. I love spicy food, but I get in moods where I'll have toast and chicken noodle soup for days.
The six things I could never do without
The cats, the espresso machine, the record collection, something to play them on, Fluevogs, my camera, and art, love, the entire basis of life as a manifestation of chaos theory that one finds meaning in, whether it's music, art, love, sex or how it all mixes together.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sometimes, I spend way too much time thinking instead of doing. Mainly, it has to do with why adults can cling to beliefs that are entirely contradictory to fact out of fear and insecurity that the wold is changing and their way of life and looking at the world needs to change with it, but they choose to go back to the dark ages instead. I think about comma splices a lot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at a show getting my ya-yas out most of the time. Some Fridays I sit endlessly chatting on the computer, some Fridays I'm stuck in my own head and just play music and don't leave the house, some Fridays I watch a movie or two, some I just go to bed early.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That's a tough one. I'm mostly easy to be around and a fun person, but maybe once every six months for a weekend or two, I get intensely lonely and moody at times and feel an overwhelming need for contact and affection. The pain sometimes is known by close friends. I end up realizing that despite feeling that way and needing to allow that, I miss up on actually doing things that would make me happy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You own a pair of go-go boots and/or a scooter!

You're open to possibilities, you're not limited by convention, whether that's how one should act according to their gender or to the so called rules of dating. The sexual revolution happened, ladies. Take some initiative. The whole how many dates vs sex argument is stupid. I'm not an insect who's going to present a nuptial gift for mating opportunity or bird who's going to build a next for the same reason. I can be somewhat of a peacock, but never a rooster. Obviously, a very good knowledge of evolutionary biology, sociobiology, and animal behavior is going to go a long way in my book.

You're smart, act way younger than your own age but know you need to shape up some time and start being healthier, you're a work in progress. You have a secret love for go-go boots and all things retro, like to spend endless hours thrift shopping, listening to music, going out and hearing live music of the kind mentioned above, and can hold your own but have your vulnerabilities too where sometimes, you just want to curl up next to me.

If you're a naughty librarian, especially if you're a really naughty librarian! You're an ultra-conservative righy with a deep need to be corrupted by an artist.