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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–88
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 2:21pm
Relationship Type
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
....carry the 2, plus 16, let's see--I'm 443. Not bad.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Warning for all who enter: We all strive to make our profiles interesting and exciting. So okay, I'm probably interesting, but I'm pretty sure, I'm not traditionally exciting. Which is to say I am by nature sort of interior and maybe not explicitly exciting, not a gregarious, party-type. Fortunately (or "un" as the case may be), I "balance that out" with a greater-than-average quirk quotient. For some that combination is just fine--even fun--but I've read many profiles of outward-ish people and they're a bit intimidating so I'm just saying: for a red-painted night on the town, followed by naked hang-gliding and absinthe in war-torn Syria, I am not the man with the brush. More likely, I am the man who built the brush or tinted the paint. (wowee, should I uncork the smelling salts?)

To get on with it though, I'm otherwise tapping into my senses, emotions and intellect. striving to be responsible--to be better and make it better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm such a dilettante. I've never mastered anything, except perhaps having an awareness of the mixed up, sweet-bitter gifts of life. And I don't know how good I am, but I enjoy writing, editing, writing music, life-insights and beautiful relationships.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i don't know. slender? mussed and unironed? sorta alt-ish?? I'm happy wearing jeans torn at the knee--but I also like to painstakingly patch them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Everyone has so much to say here, but I'll contribute one each from the left-field bag:
book--wilfred the rat
film--the russians are coming, the russians are coming
show--pepe le pew
music--dirty pretty things
food--momotoro tomatoes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
needle and thread
the strong belief that we have to pitch in once we see injustice and unfairness if we expect solutions
xanthan gum
soft spatula
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i'm very very lucky to have my one and only wife and the sub-orbital life i stepped into. why it's impossible to trisect an angle and what is that cool approach my math teacher, Ms. Lapasha taught me for finding the square root
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
preparing for saturday (I've a weird work schedule)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1)Don't use copper cleaner on the bottoms of your pots. Switch to a few shakes of salt and a splash of white vinegar. 2)Even though I denied it, I did steal that dime from Jackie in first grade. 3)I think my belly button is lower than most people's. 4)I recently realized that apparently for years, when I shower I talk to myself about what part of my shower comes next--sort of like a play-by-play. And oh yes. 5)I am a poly, non-monogamous guy in an open-marriage. I'm completely open with my wife (and she with me), but neither of us publicly flaunt the lifestyle.
You should message me if
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First of all, I can't see "likes," so message me rather than like me. Secondly --- I'll be honest. I will be very tortoise-y deliberate here. I'd love to meet someone who likes what I represent, who is kind and playful, but only after some nice "seems-like-we're-clicking" messages. And more truth be told, generally speaking, finding someone within a dozen or so years of my age in either direction might make sense. Finally, I know I don't have a pic and I know that increases the odds of anyone even reading to this point (wait. I mean THIS point), but I do have pics to share with you and I'm not hideous (oddly, I look a bit like the "outline man" in the photo box--you know, kind of straight-and-and-square standing, slender, with a tossed off do....) and I'll happily share, roots-to-toes, if we move to the exchange-y phase and so sorry about the hesitancy.