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30 • Brooklyn, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 15
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and very serious about it
- Working on Ph.D program
- Entertainment / Media
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay), French (Okay)
writing (just enough) about sexuality, films, and technology.
teaching (too much) students about media & technology.
working (just enough) from bed or various bed-stuy coffee shops.
laughing (never enough).
navigating public transportation.
'alfred c. kinsey: a life,' 'malcolm x: a life of reinvention'
'the new yorker'
recent: 'eternal sunshine of the spotless mind' 'festen' 'goodbye lenin!' 'dogtooth' 'pina,' 'margin call,' 'being elmo,' 'leviathan,' 'the butler,' 'shadowboxer'
'psycho,' 'north by northwest,' 'jeanne d'arc,' frederick wiseman, queer stuff.
'six feet under' '30 rock' 'freaks & geeks' 'roseanne' 'mad men' 'the x-files,' food network's investigative shows.
phil ochs; divas: rachael yamagata, joni mitchell, macy gray, robyn, kesha, lisa lopes, dixie chicks, janelle monae, carol channing, big freedia, carly rae jepsen; people that have performed at lilith fair; 90s one hit wonders: mazzy star, everything, dionne farris, jennifer paige, deep blue something, deadeye dick, alannah myles; mj's "they don't care about us;" musicals, too.
mostly burritos and sandwiches, but also brussels sprouts, kale, parsnips, squash, beets, collard greens, other veggies, not kalamata olives.
alternates: berlin, london, brooklyn.
i don't spend a lot of time thinking about:
television that isn't readily available on the internet.
you have eclectic tastes.
you don't think 'foreign' is a useful designation for a film genre.
the word 'kardashian' isn't in your vocabulary.
you want to help me memorize the names and back stories of the members of one direction.
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