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37 F New York, NY

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Last Online
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Asian, Pacific Islander
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Tagalog

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My self-summary
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I moved to NYC from San Francisco 3 years ago for a new adventure and a job opportunity...been loving it since.

A little about me: I'm blessed to have the experience of living in various states and countries while growing up. It helped me be the versatile person I am today - from my interests, to fashion sense and activities that I enjoy. I'm a self-assertive woman, but know when to step back and let others take the lead. I appreciate spontaneity and being present in the moment. I'm outgoing and love to make people laugh. My friends describe me as "animated", thoughtful and loyal. I also enjoy intellectual conversation as well as discussing the latest in pop culture or an entertaining buzzfeed post. I have a solid group of close friends and a large extended family who I am close to and are all very important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work in higher education. I try to find a good balance between building my career and enjoying the little things in life. I make sure to take advantage of my down time as much as possible (socializing with friends, reading, time with my dog, theater/movies, karaoke, CrossFit or whatever opportunities come my way).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staying calm, being the glass half full person in the group, parallel parking (a skill I perfected in San Francisco), solving puzzles/problems (I'm pretty friend once called me the "female MacGyver"), recalling random details, dancing old school 90's moves, and kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People have commented on my smile and that I look young for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Alchemist, Game Change, Hunger Games, Interview with A Vampire series, World War Z, Where the Red Fern Grows (my favorite book as a child), etc. Since arriving in NYC, I've been able to read leisurely on the subway rather than being stuck in California traffic so I have my list of books to tackle. Any suggestions?

Some of my favorite shows: Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, How I Met Your Mother, Law and Order SVU, CSI, Grey's Anatomy, Scandal, Chopped, House of Cards, Big Bang Theory, etc.

Movies: John Hughes movies, Love Actually, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Goonies, ET, Pixar movies, etc.

Music moves me and reflects my mood. So if you were to look at my iTunes, it would be an eclectic mixture of songs - 80's, show tunes, hip hop (esp. early 90's), R&B, classical, some country, alternative and pop.

I love food and exploring new cuisines, but sometimes nothing beats good old comfort food. My favorites are Sushi, Thai, home cooked Filipino food, carne asada fries (from San Diego) and Italian food (esp. good old spaghetti with meat sauce).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not including the obvious answers of family, friends, etc. and in no particular order:

New York City
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and how to live it to the fullest, what my dog thinks about, what motivates people, politics/social justice...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working out (usually) then meeting up with friends for happy hour or relaxing and unwinding at home...often, whatever comes my way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I like you, then I'll share...;)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're a mixture of a gentleman, a little edge/personal style and a child-at-heart. You enjoy living in the moment and looking at the brighter side of things and are open to see where things go.