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dom_no_aware

23 / M / Straight / Single

Tokyo, Japan

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:32am
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Oh hi~
My name's Dom, I'm 23 years old and graduated Uni in Japanese Studies and English literature last year. I've just moved to Tokyo!!!! Where I'll be, surprise surprise lol, teaching English.

I like reading Modernist and contemporary internetty literature and that good bleak Japanese shit #THATSwhatsup.

In London I DJed on pirate (lol I mean "community") radio and helped run a club night. I'm involved with a couple of nights out here around Shibuya, Koenji, Kichijoji etc. The scene's a lot smaller here but everyone seems very cool.

I love UK Garage, Funky, Jackin, Grime, and I love music geekism, and I love dancing like a mad eejat.

I'm into revolutionary socialism, feminism, occupying stuff, and checking my privilege and I'm not into sexism, racism or homophobia #allthatbullshit. But then I'm also into not being a dickhead about things and ramming politics down people's throats when it's not called for, or being humorless or shite.

My screen name comes from the Japanese concept of 'Mono no Aware' http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mono_no_aware which means 'the pathos of things', but really means loving the sad beauty of things passing/ throwing yourself into wilful existential crises. It's all about existential crises.

I like to think I'm very 侘び寂び but my friends say I'm a ただのてへぺろ :(
What I’m doing with my life
Moving to Japan. Trying not to forget everything I learned at uni. DJing. Trying to up the 日本語 levs. 日本語能力試験N1. Music writing. Trying to read Ulysses. 420
I’m really good at
The internet.
UK Garage.
Japan.
I dabble in Jazz Flute.
The first things people usually notice about me
Big hair.
Nice jumpers.
Enthusiasm.
Wabisabi.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Modernism - Virginia Woolf, May Sinclair, Djuna Barnes, James Joyce, Ernest Hemingway Postmodernism - W.G Sebald, Italo Calvino, Contemporary - Tao Lin, Noah Cicero, Japanese - Natsume Soseki, Ryunosuke Akutagwa, Yukio Mishima

Music - Garage, Funky, Bassline, Grime, Jackin, (non boring) House, (non juvenile) Dubstep.

I like indie and good old rock too - Animal Collective, Dirty Projectors, Blur, The Unicorns, Interpol, Gang of Four, Wire, Velvet Underground and that.

Good pop!! Nicki Minaj, Drake, Ke$ha, Rhianna, Carley Ray Jepsom!!! Good pop music should POP.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future, the evolution of music, where the world is going, if there's anything interesting left for music/art/literature to do, musical modernism, social meeja, what computers are doing to us, politics, gender, utopia, raving, girls, death.
On a typical Friday night I am
Crew love, #drank, being loud.

I have had exactly 8 weekends in Tokyo so far and they've all been really good! Mostly DJing, going to friends' events, smashing it up at an izakaya somewhere and mashing down Ramen or Makudo at 8 in the morning.

Planning lots of trips to the beach and mountains as summer heats up! Everything's peak, basically.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
I have surreptitiously given you a high rating.
You think I seem good and would like to say hello!
We have things in common.
We don't have things in common, but in an interesting way.
You live in/come to Tokyo and want to go somewhere nice.
You "like my style, man".