Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i want amazing things that fill me up and make me burst with
i want as much human experience as i have in me to go after
and not your run of the mill experience
i want unconventional &different
i feel and care really hard
i am into growth
and change in people
i Grew up in Southern California
first 23 yrs of my life
then moved to Seattle in 2010
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
working 40hrs a week @Doggie Daycare
to pay rent & feed myself
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my happy enthusiasm
that i bounce and squeak and blush over
compliments and praise
heart on my sleeve
im really good at crying lol
my collar & shackles
(that im a slave)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
anything that makes me feel.
i LOVE music
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fun laughter good times
Music is life
sky and clouds
both wild and domesticated
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my own take on the world
changing the world
being a leader
and what that looks like to me
my relationships with the people i love most and see most
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging at home/ resting/recharging/recovering ....
smoking the hippie lettuce with a friend
&eating bomb food ...
watching movies/shows on Netflix...
Driving up to Vancouver BC ....
Going to a MusicFestival/Rave/concert...
Flying to a BDSM/Leather/kink conference
You know, stuff...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
KINK/Leather/BDSM are a big part of my life, i have been involved
i am in a Master/slave relationship
i am a owned&collared slave
meaning i have a Master
my Master lives in Canada
i see Her in person about 1-2times per month. W/we've been in this
relationship together since 2009.
i adore Her.
if that's weird for you (shrug)
i am Poly
as in polyamory
meaning i dont necessarily have
"1 relationship or 1 lover only" at any given time
on here im more looking for possible potential dating&hitting
it off on a peer level. (peer can be/mean ALL ages)
what i mean when i say peer
is maybe more egalitarian relationship
as opposed to power imbalance
it can look and feel like so many things
i enjoy and am open to unconventional close relationships
i love sex
especially kinky sex
but there has to be chemistry of course
some sort of "spark" for me to get in that mood
i have borderline personality disorder
and struggle with
also have a lot of insight and self awareness around such
ive been in a lot of therapy
and have done a lot of "emotional work"
and can really appreciate people who are pro therapy or therapy
* peoples inner workings are very if not the most important thing
I’m looking for
- Girls who like girls
- Ages 18–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are poly and KINK friendly
you are attracted to me
you are looking for a lover(passion/chemistry)
you are confident
but not in a mean way
you are STD free & pactice safe sex
you are honest
you are kind
you are super open minded
you are into self love stuff- caring about yourself on a deep and
so that you are better equipped and able to care for others
you have been in (good)therapy/
done emotional "work"/
you are self aware or
are familiar with self awareness
you wanna ask me questions about
kink/BDSM or my M/s relationship
or my poly
you are looking for a friend to talk to about the universe and or
deep life stuff
you are a stoner and need someone to smoke a bowl with
you need someone to go out with
who can be a loud happy drunk with you
you like to celebrate life/ dance your heart out/&rage til the
at USC events like
or are i interested in going
you are frustrated with society and wish things were radically
you like to make the first move
/like to initiate
you are a dreamer and hopeless romantic
Who are you looking for?
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