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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 25
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
im not typical
i dont fit in any of the boxes or labels
society has to offer

im a little bit of everything

basically im into humans
meaning everyone

(of course depending on chemistry
and whether we hit it off)

lifes too short&
i intend to
go big
go home

live life to the fullest

and leave it all out on the field

and experience as much i can

heres a list about me

-Poly/ non monogamous
-feminist (does not mean man hating- quite the contrary actually)
-cares about social justice issues
-non conformist& unconventional
-420 friendly (i smoke weed)
-Gay/queer energy present and welcome
(but understand i dont fit in a box
because im open minded about being intimate/sexual with men)
-female pronouns mostly (but not strictly)
-Very open minded when it comes to relationships with people
-good head on my shoulders
-pleasure&excitement seeker
-sexually adventurous& confident
-comfortable with sex, and talk about sex
-i believe casual sex is healthy, normal to want, and not shameful or dirty

-crave laughing and fun times
-young heart &old soul
- gemini (twins) meaning i have a slice of everything inside and i am a bit of both worlds all the time.
ie ying&yang, light&dark, high&low,
shy but outgoing, intovert and extrovert, dominant and submissive, lover and hater, girl&boi etc. (im on both sides of every spectrum/both extremes)
-lover of humans& Love between humans
-familiar with emotional pain&baggage
(abuse survivor)
-tortured soul/ deep feeler/doom&gloom
-Free spirit/ wild/ non religious spirituality
-athlete/jock (Waterpolo/football)
-No boxes/no judgement
-emotional /empathic
-happy go lucky/smile a lot
-mature but able to be silly
-self aware
-believer in self care& therapy for all

--i Was born and raised in Southern California

--i moved to Wa
in 2010
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i work full time at a doggie daycare
i love dogs /all animals
(this pays my rent and bills,
so it makes sense for now)
but dont want to do it forever

i go to raves/ festivals/
like to party/ dance
(love music, listening to music is a huge part of my life day to day &
i love to dance)

i enjoy meaningful drug trips
& i love to get altered and celebrate/rage responsibly&have an amazing time with people
(recreational drug use occasionally,
but im not a druggie)

ive been (closet)kinky my whole life

but have been out and
actively in the community
since i was 19 yrs old

i go to Leather/Kink/Bdsm conferences
i am in a Master/slave relationship.
my Master is Female and i see Her
once a month (we are long distance)
we have been in this relationship for 5 years.

( i am passionate about
kinky sex,
sex positivity,
body positivity,
&sex education.)

my Master and i travel all over U.S. and Canada presenting educational workshops at different Kink conferences.
She has many workshops that She has created and teaches and that i assist with)

i am not monogamous
i am polyamorous

(meaning i have the capacity for
multiple loves &multiple relationships

that being said
im into open communication,honesty, negotiation,& respecting boundaries)

i am currently in therapy
and hope to go into the field someday

i am and have always been a firm believer in therapy

im focusing a lot of my time on this
these days.

(im very passionate about doing
"my work" (emotional)
and always looking inward.

i am passionate about psychology in general and peoples inner workings
i believe that everyone deserves and can benefit from the healing therapy can bring.

i believe we all need a little help
and mental maintenance

that being said im
very attracted and drawn to people who are in therapy themselves and trying to do
"their own work" as well.

i hope to one day help others heal as people in my life have helped me.

i believe in facing ones own discomfort for the sake of emotional awareness and growth

i continue to try facing my own demons and dark parts of myself
while learning to love, be gentle with, and accept myself fully

its all a part of my process and journey
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting along with people

being inclusive

being outrageously open minded
to a fault

not shaming people

and promoting a non shaming

i don't like hating on people
its not my thing
(unless im in traffic and
have my road rage mouth on lol)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
but i love so many things!!
how can i make a fucking list?!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
human contact/ people / relationships /companions

meaningful conversation
learning new/interesting things

Leather sex/kink/bdsm


good times
epic adventures

yummy food

books, drawing, writing
Movies&shows (netflix binges)

smoking pot


beautiful skies and scenery
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

my own take on the world
my dreams
magic/the universe
sexual orientation& gender
social justice issues
changing the world
being a leader
and what that looks like to me

my relationships with the people in my life

(biological &
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i am usually either

driving up to Vacouver BC after work
to be with my Master

or getting on a plane and flying somewhere with my Master for a Kink conference


im taking shots and getting ready to go out!
to a set/show/rave/festival/party
with one of my best friends/roomate or
friends in general


staying home and watching
movies and or shows, smoking, eating food with
best friend/roomate

whatever other random thing we come up with
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are a

open minded straight person,
open minded gay person,


you are really open minded in general

you are kind, respectful, and real

you are confident
but not in an unkind or mean way

you want casual sex
you practice safe sex
and are STD free

*(must be willing to use condoms& practice safe sex with me)

***seriously people let me know
(im not a mind reader,
"liking" my page doesnt tell me much)
so feel free to message me
even if youre only interested in
just be up front and blunt about it
i wont shame you, hate on you,
&i wont be offended,
i promise *****

you are sex positive

you are body positive& all gender positive
(of any bodies)

you are comfortable with
your sexuality

You are kinky/ kink friendly

you are trans or genderqueer

you are into non binary&gender queer
(not a requirement but be aware even though i consider myself very much female identified
i am not going to fit into any box)

you are ok with me liking all genders
and sexual orientations
&realize i have realtionships with/date women
and could potentially have relationships with/date men
-and all other genders in between

you are a girl, woman, femme, female, butch, stud, tomboy or a transguy FTM and are nterested in dating/getting to know me

you wanna smoke bowls
or wanna invite me to a fun party

You are not freaked out by everything
ive written so far

you actually read my profile
and are still interested

------one last FYI/disclaimer -----

im not skinny, i definitely have curves, &maybe a little extra,
these days anyways

i would like to get "back in shape"
in theory but the truth of the matter is,
i dont practice/workout 3x a days anymore like i did when i was in my prime athlete form

wouldnt say ive cometely let myself go either, and i carry my weight well

just saying
if you are only into skinny, perfect,
barbie body type girls

thats not me

so if you are good with that

feel free to inquire

im totally down for everything
so if you just wanna take a chance

you are NOT

straight edge
slut shaming
body shaming