30 El Cerrito, CA
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My self-summary
Motivated by passion, independence, curiosity.

Also enjoys:
Books, documentaries, puppies, traveling, physical activity, playfulness, karaoke, feminism, NPR, whiskey, words, wine, yoga, games, self-improvement, sarcasm, records, moxie, sociology, pseudo-intellectualism, the sarcasm chasm.

I'd rather walk than drive. I'd rather stand than sit. I'd rather sit on the floor than on your couch. Does that make me a weirdo?

I'm in an open relationship with a rad-tastic primary partner. Looking to make more connections and have adventures with interesting folks (especially if you think you might be interested in hanging out with me + another lady... If that's your thing)!
What I’m doing with my life
Music stuffs! I play, produce, write, record, and teach music for a living. Yes, I actually get paid to do what I love. Not bad eh?

Other things I'm doing with my life:
*Raising a dog
*Spending time outdoors
*Debating between wearing fancy boots/going barefoot
*Fun physical activity like acroyoga, dancing, climbing. Can we play???
I’m really good at
-Spacial awareness
-Jumping rope (jump roping?)
-Themed costume parties
-Giving and receiving massages (I have a massage table!)
-Cheating at Monopoly
-Wearing bright colors and loud patterns
-Inadvertently/advertently changing and redefining myself every few years.
The first things people usually notice about me
Giant banana stuffed down my crotch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Chuck Klosterman, Charles Darwin, Kurt Vonnegut, David Foster Wallace, Jared Diamond, Malcolm Gladwell, Brian Greene. I dig books, fiction and non-fiction alike.

Right now - C2C, Breaks Co-Op, Lil Wayne, Neko Case, The Delfonics, The Books, Gary Clark Jr.

I no longer watch television. I've evolved past it and am better than people who still watch television. I do however watch Netflix. Arrested Development, Doctor Who, Mad Men, Dexter, Freaks and Geeks, Battlestar Galactica, UK Office, The Wonder Years, Breaking Bad, etc.

Bill Murray. Woody Allen. Mel Brooks. My Cousin Vinny, Killer Clowns From Outer Space, Twins. Bad 90s movies, indie films, comedies in general. I like good movies too.

This American Life, The Moth, Stuff You Should Know, Savage Love, Intelligence Squared, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me.

Most standup comedy. Especially bad live standup.

Mostly paleo, with epic dessert cheats from time to time. I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Juicer or blender
Meaningful connections
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Thinking about overthinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing a show? At a show? Karaoke? Working in the studio? Grabbing drinks with friends? Climbing into my extremely comfortable bed with a book? Watching Star Trek? Backyard sunset yoga? Putting money into massage chairs?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
After 30 years on this planet, I still have not mastered the art of eating popcorn without spilling it everywhere. Probably never will.

Also, Michael Bolton's "When A Man Loves A Woman" routinely gets stuck in my head. No idea why.

I'm actually somewhere in between 5'10 and 5'11. I lied on my OkCupid profile.

I don't keep many things private.
You should message me if
-are incredible
-enjoy clever conversation, karaoke, or coffee.
-also value your health (physical and emotional)
-want to go to a show, a Moth story slam, standup comedy, watch some Doctor Who, or need an acro partner.
-also despise mayonnaise
-are down to meet without sending 50 kazillion OKC messages first
-are the gatekeeper, for I am the keymaster and have been looking for you for quite some time now.