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35 Astoria, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm so much fun, if I was any more fun I'd be twins. (I have no idea what this means either)

I am an INFP

Okcupid seems to think i'm a INTJ

I see it like this:

I(fairly) N(Very) F(close call) P(I'm a P when calm and a J when stressed)

Does this make any sense to anyone?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've got two degrees in Art (from Parsons and NYU). Now I'm a paralegal. Yeah, that makes sense.

I run distance in the fall winter and spring then ruin it all by getting fat in the summer. I can't help it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing. Cooking. Photoshop. Knowing lots of stupid things. I play guitar ok.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I LOVE books. I actually buy books just to have them around sometimes. I've never thrown a book away, and I pick them up if I see them lying on a stoop in nyc. Latest aquisitions are: a book about dianetics and a novel that has no cover, no first page, and no last page.

Reading: Running with the Mind of Meditation

I own two books that I have read 7 times and several that I am reading on a rotating basis just so I won't forget them.
I may very well end up dying surrounded by a pile of books I've been sleeping on in a decrepit old house that I have no time to repair because I was too busy wandering around Barnes and Noble with a cracked out look in my eye.
Now that I have gotten that out of my system...
The Kite Runner was my favorite, followed closely by The Catcher in the Rye. However, The latter has more staying power I have found.
Tom Robbins books are terrific. I regrettably used to be into Anne Rice and I admit that yes I still read her books out of habit.
Christopher Moore's "The Gospel According to Biff" is hysterical.

I'm not huge into movies, but I love Fight Club, American Beauty, The Matrix and The Princess Bride.

Lots, not hip-hop though for some reason I just never liked it. Drum and Bass is(are?) cool though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Books, Art, Sex (I tried two years of celibacy after college, ug that sucked. It's a long story), Coffee, and the totally cool and loving people in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Girls, God, Art. Not necessarily in that order.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately? Beers after work then home to cook. I know, thrilling.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm in an open marriage with a wonderful woman (mimibear17552) I met on Match(sorry okcupid). It's not private at all, but you should know. Also If you happen to like women she might be into it ;)

While I'm not 100% poly (i.e. I'll date but I'm not looking to fall for anyone else) this is an awesome article:
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're open minded, fun, smart and a good conversationalist, artsy, musical and into wine doesn't hurt either.

Actually any combo of the above works :)