Nope it means I am out of a bad relationship and meeting new people.
I am also reinventing myself again, version 4.0 shall we say. I take these opportunities of transition to figure out what is and isn't working in my life and try to rectify those things.
I recently realized short term isn't my thing and I'd really like to find someone who compliments my life style and I theirs.
I have a good idea of what I am not looking for in a partner life (see deal breakers) but no idea of exactly what I am looking for (that makes sense in my mind...lol).
I am happy with who and what I am.
I have worked hard to get where I am physically and financially.
If your planning on molding me to what you want, well move on that isn't happening.
I have done 11 sprint distance triathlons but missed the last 2 years due to shoulder issues. I still try and work out regularly and would love someone who can keep up or even challenge me to keep up with them.
I have 4 kids, 3 grown and one 10yr old daughter with me every two weeks, so if I can or offer meet with you please respect it for how special it is.
Smoking: I quit 10 years ago and can not deal with it.
Healthy: After quiting smoking I put on 50+lbs and spent alot of time and effort taking it off, its hard to be fit at 40, I live it and respect in others. I understand 40 years old isn't 20 and don't expect you to be. I am ok with a little extra but if your 40+ lbs over weight I am not ok with that.
Medically stable: If your drinking heavily daily, popping pills just to make it through the day or pshcologically unstable.
Money: I don't judge by it and expect not to be.
Distance: I live near the airport so Austin, far NW side and far south side are out of bounds.
So if you live a healthy and stable life style and are not looking for your next husband or baby's daddy, give me a shot.