Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am about as busy as a person can be! If you are like me, YOU are
too! Don't worry, I don't have a problem making time for an
interesting woman. I am a man that likes to travel, although I
don't do it as often as I would like. I dream of walking hand in
hand on a sand covered beach with a good woman. If you don't like a
man to cuddle and hold you, then I am not the guy for you. When you
are feeling down, just call me! I am a listener, tell me about your
day at work, how everything went, and even about the argument you
had with your kid. (I have kids too.) I want to find a good solid
friend in you before I start a relationship.
ME OUT WITH YOU
I don't drink or smoke, so I don't really care for bars or clubs. I
wont take you there either. I have a penchant for fine dining, the
arts, and travel. I also enjoy bowling and pool, but I'm not very
good at either one. LOL
I am fit, and trim. If you feel you have a FEW extra pounds, that's
I am unwilling to be in a physical relationship with someone I
would not commit my life to, and you cannot determine this in 3 or
4 dates. If you are the type of woman that expects a physical
relationship without this level of commitment, you are not the girl
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an entrepreneur and co-founder of a local Jazz station,
KOJHradio.com (go listen to it). I have a BS from U.C.O. I am not
intimidated by someone with more education, and I don't look down
on those with less.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to you. This is important because EVERY woman has a body,
but no one else has YOUR HEART.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall and slim, somewhat muscular, with blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm not really into movies, but I enjoy a broad range of music
except rap and heavy metal. I enjoy theater and Philharmonic
concerts as well as live jazz.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My relationship with God is the only thing I could not live
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. The future (Are there any women who love Jesus?)
2. Personal plans
3. Time with my kids. It doesn't just happen. Since they don't live
with me, I have to make seeing them a priority.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
with my kids, shopping, or working on a hobby. Friday is also a
good date night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not interested in merely finding a lover; I am looking for
marital commitment. I’m a man, and I appreciate a physical
relationship as much as you do, but only within the context of
MARRIAGE. If you aren’t considering this level of commitment, then
we have nothing to talk about. I have only been with one woman, and
we were together for almost 20 years. The next person I’m with will
be my next wife, no exceptions.
If you are looking for marital commitment as well, take the time to
get to know me. I really do want to know the woman you are inside.
I want to understand your dreams, feelings, and ideas, and I want
to know if I am good for YOU as well.
You should message me if
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