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dontcryemuboy

36 / F / straight / Single

Fort Worth, Texas

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Long-term dating, Short-term dating
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Sometimes
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Working on college/university
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Has 1 child
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English

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I am anachronistic, anti-hip, and geeked out.

My Self-Summary

- i dream about rooms every night since i can remember
- my first words were "see the moon"
- i write love letters with a real pencil and paper
- i wear perfume behind my knees
- i know how to do the fox trot
- i steal pens compulsively
- i worry that all my idols will die before i do
- i read cookbooks in bed, late at night, voraciously, like lascivious porn
- i have a girl crush on christiane amanpour
- i constantly crave chocolate cake

What I’m doing with my life

finding things that i love, raising a sweet boy, working on school for a second career, eating delicious things, trying to be more compassionate, savoring the tiny details.

I’m really good at

laughing at myself, baking, crossword puzzles, name that tune, soothing savage beasts.

The first things people usually notice about me

no one has ever said, "the first thing i noticed about you was..."

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

read: cormac mccarthy, isabel allende, william kittridge, truman capote, john irving, salman rushdie, laura esquival, tom robbins, and robert sabuda's lovely pop-up books.

see: lonesome dove, blade runner, garden state (i know, its a guilty pleasure), urban cowboy, the big sleep, the secret of roan inish, midnight cowboy, the last picture show, sergio leone's spaghetti westerns.

hear: matt costa, shins, jamie liddell, ray lamontagne, aloha, wilco, matt pond PA, neko case, damien rice, cat power, elliott smith, edith piaf, andrew bird, the walkmen, jeff buckley, tom waits. anybody know who covered El Llano Estacado, not brian burns or tom russell, maybe in 1999 or 2000?

The six things I could never do without

my mutt girl
books
beer
my funny boy
pony tail holders
my ratty irish sweater

I spend a lot of time thinking about

politics, human relationships, gender differences, how to raise a good boy, what my dog might be thinking about, how the system beats people down instead of raising them up, maine, sex and food.

On a typical Friday night I am

when fridays become typical, i'll fill this in.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i'm not.

You should message me if

if you know what's good for you?