I'm not very good at talking about myself, but here it is. I am
looking for a woman to spend time with and have some fun. Lots of
fun. I feel a need to have some joy back in my life and I am ready
to do so. I have been separated for over four years, and divorced
over a year. I'm not expecting an immediate long-term relationship,
though I am open to it and that would be my ultimate goal. You just
never know. I figure that would happen naturally with the right
woman. No way around it, I am a "hick". Hicks are nice people, easy
going, fair, dependable, trustworthy, hard working, fiercely loyal,
very protective, and compasionate. I know it sounds like I'm
describing the family dog, but that pretty much defines either one.
I guess you could say I'm proud of it.
I like to think I have a sense of humor. Maybe that's funny all by
itself. I would like to meet a woman with similar
I open and close doors for women and generally treat women with a
great deal of respect. I can't help it. That's the way I was
raised, and I was raised by some very strong women. Don't mistake
anything I have said here as understanding women. I make no such
claims. All I can say is that I try to get along. If you are still
reading, then you are pretty tough, because I'm no writer and it is
a difficult thing to talk about me.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in Adult Probation as a liaison (had to learn to spell liaison. Remember, I'm a "hick" ). I spend most of each day in Court. I no longer live alone in a small apartment. I now live alone in a very small house near here. I guess I'm not writing a novel here. Sounds so generic. I just want some joy in my life and a woman who I can give it back to. A woman that makes me feel like I can fly. The one that I will know is the best thing that ever happened to me!
I’m really good at
The things I'm told that I'm good at are: working, listening,
understanding, supporting, protecting, doing the "right"
thing even if it's bad for me, patience, loyalty, and being there
for those I am close to and love ( There I go with the family dog
again or is it a Cub Scout?). I once was good with motorcycles.
Racing, stunts, jumping them over outhouses, etc... I do not do
those things anymore, however I do love motorcycles and I love to
ride. I love the water and used to be a great skier. I've taught
many many how to swim and ski. I don't know what else, guess I'll
have to ask someone.
The first things people usually notice about me
I really have no idea. I have never asked anyone that question.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The very first book that had an impact on me was To "Kill A Mockingbird". I read it as a child and really related to it (Remember the characters were pretty much Hicks also). I have read books on Profiling Serial Criminals / Killers that I found fascinating, but I don't read as much as I once did and I'm not sure why. I don't watch alot of movies or television unless the weather is bad. I enjoy a big variety of music. My favorites would be Blues, Blues Rock, Rock, Country, even Folk. Never cared for alot of Jazz, it's too complicated for me and I don't like very much rap.
I used to play guitar, but no longer play due to Parkinson's Disease.
Food, I like it. I love comfort/soul food, love mexican ( which I could eat everyday ) shrimp, lobster, crab legs, steak, and even grilled burgers. Never developed any curiosity for Sushi and have never tried it. Give me the backyard grill or some hole in the wall diner that has good pie and I'm a happy man.
The six things I could never do without
There are not 6 things that I cannot do without besides food,
shelter, water, and of course sex ( Hey, you have to want to live
). I am as tough as I have to be (emphasis on "have"). There are
many many more than 6 things that I don't want to do without, but
that wasn't the question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm trying to change gears and live my life, but I have to admit
that I do find myself thinking about a woman alot. Really! Alot!
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually home alone. I'm tired of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Most of what I know was learned by osmosis.
You should message me if
If you want to.