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46 • Reseda, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–73
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Today – 7:38am
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Dropped out of university
- Entertainment / Media
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, Japanese (Fluently)
I'm drawn to joy. I want to feel it, inspire it, and create it in others.
I'm trying to be open to everything, especially the new and/or unexpected. In terms of meeting new people, I'm most interested in good conversations and quality people to spend time with going out and exploring. I don't like the expectations that a dating site, or the word "date" lays on us. Expectations make people miserable. Most important is to create good friendships with people that inspire me and that I hopefully can inspire too. It just is really hard to find non-flaky, balanced people to hang out with in L.A.
I especially enjoy meeting people from other cultures and demographics. I learn so much. I just came back from a month in Asia and was really inspired by the people there. It's made me want to create and find more kindness and simplicity in my life in California. At least until I can go back! :)
Some of my recent adventures on this site have been both beautiful and painful. But I learned much, and I think they made me a better person. I hope so. I keep working on it.
I hope even if we don't become friends, you stay open to the unexpected. The world often disappoints us, but it can pleasantly surprise us too. It's easy to miss it if we're still stuck on the last thing. Have a great day.
p.s. I am very good at Scrabble. If you like you may hit me up on Words With Friends on your iPhone. My screenname is adamghost.
Doing what I say I am going to do.
Actors: Animal House, Dances With Wolves, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Caddyshack, Sullivan's Travels, Caddyshack, Groundhog Day, Caddyshack, The Dead Talk Back, Starfighters. I mean, um, I really love indie films with unpronounceable foreign names. Honest I do.
Shows: Breaking Bad, MST3K, That '70s Show, HIMYM (1st 2 seasons), WKRP In Cincinnati, Buffyangelfireflydomalejosswhedonfansevergetlaid?
Music: I'm a professional musician. I hate everything*
*hate is too strong a word. Tired of mediocrity.
(and...you can always find a reason NOT to do something. I'm in favor of self-motivated affirmative action. I'll be here if you decide to go for it)
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