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dorkssaywhat

48 M Englewood, CO

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am kind of extreme. Not in the “dude, watch this!" way. It's more that I tend to go from wet your pants funny to meaningful, deep processing, all in the same conversation. I love talking; dark or light, heady or spiritual, laugh riot or sacred and intimate.
I like playing with big ideas that stretch me or judo flip my old paradigms.
Balance is the key to happiness. I do this dance between my soul and my intellect, where I shift my weight back and forth endulging them both. For example, doing visual art, my brain enjoys the process of bringing something to light and my soul loves to express it's self and be moved. Playing music is the same way. I play ukulele and guitar. But, ukulele is my little darling.
The other art I like to do is Argentine Tango dancing. My intelect does the choreographing, at the same time, my heart is connecting to my partner and interpreting the music through my body. Although I am still a clod at it, I still love it, and most dance for that matter.




 Doing art and raising my two girls, 8 and 10, keeps me really busy. I love being a Dad. My girls are super funny and creative types. Their Mom and I are split parenting, and have a good friendship.
Then, I keep it all together by taking good care of myself. I do yoga, run, work out and meditate. My spiritual life is full yet completely undefined at the moment. I would have to say, I am an old soul. I must have seen too many b&w movies as a kid. I love the sound of a needle finding the groove of a record, fedoras not caps, when a woman wears a dress, pocket watches, sappy romantic love songs, Art Deco and Mid Century Mod.
What I’m doing with my life
Work:
I am a graphic designer and illustrator. I have worked in advertising for years. I love that I can create and think for a living.
Family
I have always wanted to be a dad. My girls and I have so much fun. I just want to blubber on and on about them.
Art:
Lately I have been doing more visual art. I have been rendering images that have been coming to me via dreams and meditation. My subconscious apparently has much to say, and its language is really interesting and poetic.
Writing:
I have been journaling in support of what is happening with the meditation and visual art thing. My writing moves between poetry and philosophy and deals with layers of self.
I’m really good at
Deep conversations / Being ridiculous
Being a romantic / Getting real and getting things done
Thinking way too much / Meditating
Playing ukulele / Making my girls feel loved and adored
Being alone / Connecting
Being present / Daydreaming
Listening / Being in my own head
Seeing the big picture / Being naive
The first things people usually notice about me
People always ask me where I am from. I can't tell if it because I look european, or if it is just because I don't take my style cues from curent culture.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Anything by Thomas Moore. Books on Self development, philosophy, and psychology. Miguel Ruiz, the Four agreements.
Pablo Neruda, anything. Walt Witman, Leaves of grass. Joseph Heller, Catch-22. Stephen Ambrose, Citizen soldier.
Movies:
Joe Versus the Volcano, Moonrise Kingdom, Wings of Desire, Amélie, Oh Brother, Life is Beautiful, Blazing Saddles, Young Frankenstein, High Anxiety, Lawrence of Arabia, North by Northwest, The Rear Window, The Rope, It's a Wonderful Life, Casablanca...
Music:
Jazz 1920-40s Stan Getz, Louis Armstrong, Django Reinhardt, Curtis Mayfield, Marvin Gaye, Ella Fitzgerald, Miles Davis, Chet Baker, IZ, Innocence Mission, Janelle Monae, Ian Cooke, Nick Drake, Pearl Bailey, My Brightest Diamond, Sufjan Stevens, tUnE-yArDs, Sinatra, Dean Martin...
Thai, Pho, Mediterranean, Italian, anything with peanut butter!
The six things I could never do without
Things...
- A ukulele
-Art supplies
-Cupa tea
-A great hat
-Meditation
-Journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-The true nature of self, and the Universe and how that whole thing works.
-My kids
-Relationships
-Philosophy
-Music
-Art
- Design and color
- What my dog thinks
-If I should be a therapist or an artist
-How to free myself from corporate life
- how can society have so much wealth an profound fear and alienation.
On a typical Friday night I am
I got my monkeys on Fridays so, we are either driving from pet store to pet store petting everything they got. Or, we are bombing around on bikes visiting the horses in our hood. But, mostly we chill and talk. They are so much fun to hang with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I miss my crazy curly mustache.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you possess the power to make me laugh so hard that no sound comes out. You know, when your eyes water up and you have to catch your breath. I would gladly return the favor.
... you are passionate about something; art, work, faith, yoga, athletics, family... even if it's just your cat, have your own guidance, and motivational system.
... you think too much, about a great many things. I want to hear your creative, intelligent, thoughtful ideas about the world and your life.
... you romance life, appreciate beauty, design, and can artfully build a life.
... you are compassionate to a fault, with a heart fixed on doing good and living a good life.