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dossy
33 / M / Bisexual / Married
Butler, New Jersey
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- Asian
- Height
- 5' 2" (1.57m).
- Body Type
- Overweight
- Looking For
- New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
- Smokes
- Yes
- Drinks
- Rarely
- Drugs
- —
- Religion
- Christianity but not too serious about it
- Sign
- Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
- Education
- Graduated from college/university
- Job
- Computer / Hardware / Software
- Income
- $100,000–$150,000
- Kids
- Has children
- Pets
- Likes dogs and Owns cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), LISP (Okay)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am overambitious, inscrutable, and misanthropic.
My Self-Summary
(If you're quickmatching, I'm dossy.)
I ...
• am a professional software developer.
• am married to mamph.
• am a father to two beautiful daughters.
• live in Butler, NJ.
• blog at http://dossy.org/.
• am a Lutheran.
• love to sing - I used to sing in the church choir and with the Barbershop Harmony Society (formerly SPEBSQSA).
• love to play guitar - I used to accompany the Sunday School children at church on guitar.
I ...
• am a professional software developer.
• am married to mamph.
• am a father to two beautiful daughters.
• live in Butler, NJ.
• blog at http://dossy.org/.
• am a Lutheran.
• love to sing - I used to sing in the church choir and with the Barbershop Harmony Society (formerly SPEBSQSA).
• love to play guitar - I used to accompany the Sunday School children at church on guitar.
What I’m doing with my life
Juggling too many open tasks at once, that's for sure.
I ...
• work for a computer security company, developing a new product that targets the healthcare industry.
• volunteer my time and talents to the Taproot Foundation, helping deliver valuable services to non-profits to help further their missions.
• do my own repairs around the house, which can always have more work done on it.
I ...
• work for a computer security company, developing a new product that targets the healthcare industry.
• volunteer my time and talents to the Taproot Foundation, helping deliver valuable services to non-profits to help further their missions.
• do my own repairs around the house, which can always have more work done on it.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at being lucky, apparently. Of course, my friend
David recited an awesome quote relating to luck: "The harder I
work, the luckier I seem to be."
Yes, I work way too much, but, I love what I do. I guess I'm just ... lucky ... that way.
Yes, I work way too much, but, I love what I do. I guess I'm just ... lucky ... that way.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have really long hair and am often confused or mistaken for a
woman. I've resigned myself to the fact that I'm either a really
effeminate looking man or a really ugly looking woman.
What do you notice?
What do you notice?
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
(a) Books: Who Moved My Cheese. Man's Search For
Meaning, Viktor Frankel. Thinking Styles, Robert
Sternberg.
(b) Movies: Brazil. Rocky Horror Picture Show. The Cook, The Thief, His Wife and Her Lover. Priscilla, Queen of the Desert. Hedwig and the Angry Inch. Dude, Where's My Car. Half Baked.
(c) Music: Grateful Dead, Indigo Girls, Pink Floyd, God Street Wine, They Might Be Giants, Trans-Siberian Orchestra ...
(d) Foods: Japanese/sushi, Thai, Indian, Malaysian, Turkish, Greek ... too many to name, I'm such a foodie. I love to cook, too. I definitely "live to eat" and not "eat to live."
(b) Movies: Brazil. Rocky Horror Picture Show. The Cook, The Thief, His Wife and Her Lover. Priscilla, Queen of the Desert. Hedwig and the Angry Inch. Dude, Where's My Car. Half Baked.
(c) Music: Grateful Dead, Indigo Girls, Pink Floyd, God Street Wine, They Might Be Giants, Trans-Siberian Orchestra ...
(d) Foods: Japanese/sushi, Thai, Indian, Malaysian, Turkish, Greek ... too many to name, I'm such a foodie. I love to cook, too. I definitely "live to eat" and not "eat to live."
The six things I could never do without
1. My wife and kids.
2. Internet connectivity.
3. Good food.
4. My Birkenstocks.
5. My sharp, cynical sense of humor and attitude.
6. Blondes.
2. Internet connectivity.
3. Good food.
4. My Birkenstocks.
5. My sharp, cynical sense of humor and attitude.
6. Blondes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
... why the more interesting profiles on OKCupid seem to be DGLM
types, but that's the type OKCupid says I should "always avoid".
On a typical Friday night I am
My life doesn't have a "typical" Friday night. There's always
something going on, something to do, something to fix, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
It makes me sad that I haven't yet met in person a single person
I've met on OKCupid.
You should message me if
Message me because you have nothing to lose and everything to gain
by doing it.
