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dosto_tolsto

38 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:39am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am tall, charming, trilingual, artistic, and relatively modest.

Anima sana in corpore sano, that's my credo. I can hit high-velocity backhands. As an accomplished musician, one part of my brain is occupied by harmony and melody (these are not two sexy blond twins - although they do appear, occasionally)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
pursuing business opportunities with my head in the clouds.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
picking up anecdotes, developing plot twists, laying down philosophical tenets of the next great Franco-American novel, Bellow-like.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Perhaps it is the slight accent, or the sense that I am not fully "American".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
French/American/Russian literature. Multilingual writers like Beckett, Nabokov, Kundera, or writers with a fantastic imagination like Italo Calvino or Julio Cortazar. Los Siete Locos by Roberto Arlt.

Almost all styles of music, from classical to country. Richard Tee and the Gadd Gang. And the Thong Song, by the great composer Sisqo.

Movies: Kieslowski, Le Samourai by Melville, Sergio Leone Westerns.

Food-wise, I try to have some balance within my bi-cultural tastes. In NYC, I enjoy restaurants such as Balthazar or Cafe Boulud, but I also love a good Gray's Papaya dog (well done, with a piña colada) once in a while. And I can't resist a plate of creamy pasta.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Late nights, mint milanos, hotel lounges, crisp-cornered books, music performance, a sense of the world at large.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
music, and how I wish more people were infected by its virtues.

Whether the love of "sarcasm" so prevalent on this site indicates that few people actually know the meaning of that particular word; or whether this form of humor - by definition contemptuous - represents a certain New York state of mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
criss-crossing the court.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will not eat a frittata, ciabatta, or anything ending in -atta. Out of principle.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're an alluring woman, and the kind of person who can keep a secret. You enjoy a variety of art forms, great literature, and can run a mile under 8 min. Perhaps you can cook, which is an altruistic quality. Just suggestions, or perhaps a fantasy.