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dosto_tolsto

38 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:25pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am tall, charming, trilingual, artistic, and relatively modest.

Anima sana in corpore sano, that's my credo. I can hit high-velocity backhands. As an accomplished musician, one part of my brain is occupied by harmony and melody (these are not two sexy blond twins - although they do appear, occasionally)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
pursuing business opportunities with my head in the clouds.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
giving friends a giant slap across the face, and telling them to "get over it".
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Perhaps it is the slight accent, or the sense that I am not fully "American".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Classics of French/American/Russian literature. Multilingual authors like Beckett, Nabokov, Conrad, or the dark genius of Poe, Baudelaire, Rimbaud, and Lautreamont... Whimsical and imaginative writers such as Italo Calvino or Julio Cortazar. Los Siete Locos by the Argentinian Roberto Arlt.

Almost all styles of music, from classical to country. Richard Tee and the Gadd Gang, bluesin'/rockin' it up. Yeah, the Blues, baby. And the Thong Song, by the great composer Sisqo.

Movies: Kieslowski, Le Samourai by Melville, Sergio Leone Westerns. Bank Heist films like Inside Man, and so many more.

Food-wise, I try to have some balance. In NYC, I enjoy restaurants such as Balthazar or Cafe Boulud, but a good Gray's Papaya dog is nice once in a while. And I can't resist a plate of creamy pasta.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Late nights, mint milanos, hotel lounges, crisp-cornered books, music performance, a sense of the world at large.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
music, and how I wish more people were infected by its virtues.

Whether the love of "sarcasm" so prevalent on this site indicates that few people actually know the meaning of the word; or whether this form of humor - by definition derisive - represents a certain NY state of mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
criss-crossing the court. Slice, slice...and forehand.
Kinda like Steffi Graf, but better.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will not eat a frittata, ciabatta, or anything ending in -atta. Out of principle.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're an alluring woman, and the kind of person who can keep a secret. You enjoy a variety of art forms, literature, and can run a mile under 8 min. Cooking is an altruistic quality, in my opinion. Just suggestions... or maybe a fantasy.